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I jokingly accused my husband of doing sexual stuff with a woman he works with (it was a complete joke as the woman is much older, chubby and not good looking at all). Well, he got real weird and didn't joke back like he'd ordinarily do. He changed the subject immediately and had strange body language and wouldn't even look at me.
She's the only female that works there. He doesn't go anywhere before or after work either.
So....what do you think?
Yup, Keyboard has a point. He could be guilty of wanting, or has already, been with another women, for your sake I hope not the latter. Test out his body language, and if you get anything, ask nicely whats wrong (You might be more successful if your not screaming at him, but if he admits to anything I DO NOT blame you for chopping off certain male organs lmao) Good luck and I hope nothing is wrong :D
He was talking about a situation at work and I said oh it sound like she likes ya (which was actually true, it does seem like she flirts an awful lot). He got weird. So to tease him I said he probably threw her some dick and now she's hooked (well something to that effect).
Ahh, I see. That's kind of what I was getting at. Whether you had any doubts and what had caused them. It's entirely possible he enjoys the flirting and doesn't think you'll be okay about it (you seem to deal with it well). Or, like others say, maybe he's hiding something deeper.
Personally, it doesn't sound like he's doing doing anything too deceitful but, in your position, I'd keep my eye on the situation and see if his behaviour towards you changes. I wouldn't eat yourself up about it, though. It sounds like you handle things just fine, as it is.
The only person who knows is your husband and the other girl; all these people are speculating with even less information than you've got. We don't know him, we don't know the other girl, we don't know you.
All we have is a tiny bit of a big story - you'll get some reassuring answers, and some concerning answers, and whichever you settle on is probably the one you would have reached on your own.
Basically, we can't give you something we don't have, so we can't help you.
Don't be lulled into a false sense of security coz she's fat and ugly etc. If she's flirting with him, she's maybe making him feel good - not like the boring wifey at home.
Have you ever noticed the ugly birds men leave their wives for?
If you suspect it, there will be some truth to it!!!!
I have to agree with Keyboardsolo also he probably has a fantasy or something involving another woman and your joke touched a nerve a real tell tale sign is if start to question you about the same thing. I wouldn't jump all over him or anything just ask and see where it goes yelling will just start an argument and nothing will be accomplished good luck