Of course its 100% Normal. Dreams allow us to explore what the unconscious desires most. Perhaps something we can not have in our waking moments, but the desire does not evade our unconscious. It takes cuts to ask for what you want, and if you get a NO to a date request, try, try, again. If she says no again, well then you have a life lesson in rejection which is not all bad. It happens to the best of us.
Many will say rejection makes us stronger, but those who say it have never really felt the pain that goes along with it and would never wish it on their worst enemy....so its a bad feeling to experience. This is why we continue to ponder it! Even in sleep!
In a nut shell......Dreams are telling and you should write them down in the morning when you awake. Keep a note pad and pen, or your electronic device on night stand to jot them down to recall later otherwise we forget them.
They will give you meaning.....Either the dream means it is something you really wanted and did not get to enjoy, or [could mean] your thoughts are attempting to reveal something about your character, longings, desires, conflicts, fears, personality.
There are many books about "Dream Themes" that are common.....research online. I can't find my book for this post but just as well as it would be beneficial for you to research on your own. Search for the theme of your dream....not that she is in your dream, but the CONTEXT of which she appears in your dream. For example, what is she doing and what are you doing, and if there is anything else present in the situation......What is the place, what is happening, conversations, actions, or any notable theme to the dream. I say this because as you do research there are searchable themes more so than...is just someone appearing in your dream.
What does this dream mean?
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Of course its 100% Normal. Dreams allow us to explore what the unconscious desires most. Perhaps something we can not have in our waking moments, but the desire does not evade our unconscious. It takes cuts to ask for what you want, and if you get a NO to a date request, try, try, again. If she says no again, well then you have a life lesson in rejection which is not all bad. It happens to the best of us.
Many will say rejection makes us stronger, but those who say it have never really felt the pain that goes along with it and would never wish it on their worst enemy....so its a bad feeling to experience. This is why we continue to ponder it! Even in sleep!
In a nut shell......Dreams are telling and you should write them down in the morning when you awake. Keep a note pad and pen, or your electronic device on night stand to jot them down to recall later otherwise we forget them.
They will give you meaning.....Either the dream means it is something you really wanted and did not get to enjoy, or [could mean] your thoughts are attempting to reveal something about your character, longings, desires, conflicts, fears, personality.
There are many books about "Dream Themes" that are common.....research online. I can't find my book for this post but just as well as it would be beneficial for you to research on your own. Search for the theme of your dream....not that she is in your dream, but the CONTEXT of which she appears in your dream. For example, what is she doing and what are you doing, and if there is anything else present in the situation......What is the place, what is happening, conversations, actions, or any notable theme to the dream. I say this because as you do research there are searchable themes more so than...is just someone appearing in your dream.
Let us know what you find!