What does it mean when a guy asks a girl if they have a boyfriend?

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Does it mean that the guy who is asking the girl is interested in her romantically?

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  • VirgilManly
    8 years ago | pl

    It usually means the guy would like to know if the girl has a boyfriend.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago | pl

    It means he wants to get into your pants and he's trying to find out if there is someone standing in his way.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago | pl

    I once had this gross guy come up and ask me if I was married. I was sitting by myself eating an ice cream cone during my first week away at college and this jerk comes up and asks me if he can have a lick of my ice cream cone and then asks if I'm married.

    In classic codependent fashion I told him I had a cold and that I was married while conveniently hiding my left hand. Just thinking about it makes me wish he'd get throat cancer and die! I felt so disgusting, dirty, ugly and disrespected.

    I'd like to think that if that happened to me again today I would respond by telling him "hell no, and that's none of your God damned business!"

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    • reminiscent
      8 years ago | pl

      Thats super creepy

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago | pl

        Thanks, it was a scary experience. I was so freaked out I walked across the street and talked to the guys at the campus police station which turned out pretty well as I got a date with a really cute cop.
        :-)

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        • 1knotted
          8 years ago | pl

          Hey RoseI., I don't care how short of $$ you are, the only response is to dump the IC inside his trousers & tell him "sure he can have a lick of the IC". & Hope it's hot & the IC runs down to his anus!
          & what time of day was it? Did the cute cop have a nightstick or a sap??

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        • reminiscent
          8 years ago | pl

          Oh so something goid at least came out of it

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          • RoseIsabella
            8 years ago | pl

            Yes, but still hate creeps that bother me.

            On the other hand I've always loved cops, even back when I was a pothead.

            I'm feeling quite out of sorts, because it's 1am and I just woke up from a God awful nightmare about my first ex husband. Not to mention my CPAP mask broke a few days ago & now I'm constantly tired & oversleeping.

            I know this is out of blue, but if you can please pray for me and my CPAP mask situation.

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            • reminiscent
              8 years ago | pl

              Yeah id still hate it too

              I never had a bad experience with cops myself...I have liked them ever since one helped me get my stolen bike back when I was around 10.

              I can do that for you....but I must ask what is a CPAP mask?

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  • (s)aint
    8 years ago | pl

    I take it as the guy is interested and I tend to sneer at him to scare him off. That or "How´s it going with your boyfriend?" That asked from someone who isn´t a close friend is annoying the shit out of me. I tend to bluntly tell guys there´s zero chance for them EVER. They usually gets annoyed.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      But what if it was a close friend who was asking. It's a guy and he's asking his close female friend if she had a boyfriend. Does this mean that he's interested?

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      • (s)aint
        8 years ago | pl

        All my close friends knows that I have a boyfriend xD But if a close friend were to ask; "Hey, you haven't talked about your guy in a while- Everything okay?" Then that's an entirely different thing.

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  • eastbeast
    8 years ago | pl

    He wants to bang your boyfriend with you watching.
    You obviously look like the type that would go for it.
    We want to see pictures when it happens.

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  • reminiscent
    8 years ago | pl

    Yeah most likely. Depends a little how it was asked.

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    • RoseIsabella
      8 years ago | pl

      Yes! I hate it when those sort of personal questions are asked in a creepy way.

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  • sandraasiilva
    8 years ago | pl

    Not always. It depends. But it sure can be a signal of his interest in you

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  • Nokiot9
    8 years ago | pl

    Of course. I do it right off the bat sometimes to show I'm not looking for just another friend that's also a girl.

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  • LizardSkin
    8 years ago | pl

    It means they want to be your new boyfriend, next.

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  • suicideguy
    8 years ago | pl

    is your boyfriend hot

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