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Im a guy who is very guarded and emotionally unavailable when it comes to women. Sex is ok and being platonic friends is fine, but I have a dilemma. I recently met someone who I can't stop thinking about. We've met twice, went out on a date once. Even became a little intimate (no sexual intercourse) before she just went away on a trip for a month.

My problem is that from the moment I met her, I got butterflies. The only time I've ever had butterflies for a woman is when I thought I could fall in love with her. Im divorced now, but the same thing happened with my last relationship where I got butterflies for someone and ended up married to her, but apparently it didnt work out because we didnt have much in common.

This time, this person and I have a lot in common and relate on so many levels. However, because I have been unemployed over the last 6 months, I feel she might be insecure about getting into a relationship with me. On top of that, she lives quite a distance from me, but is trying to move into the same town as me, so her son can be closer to his father.

My question is: Is it normal to believe that this person might be my soulmate just because we have so much in common, despite my current employment status, and her being a successful career woman?

(I can't stop thinking about her!!!)

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  • xtrinhx
    12 years ago | pl

    It's not right just to bring yourself down for your financial statues, and because of it, you shouldn't go with your gut. Only two simple answer for your question: Yes or No if she is really the one for you. It's not right to give up on your hope, even if it small as a piece of threat. You'll need to hang on to it if you want to believe.

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  • Galaxy500
    14 years ago | pl

    This is normal - I don't know about your last relationship though, but it's a good idea to test out the relationship for a few years before thinking about marriage. And yeah....get a job. 6 months is a ridiculous amount of time not to have a job... and you're probably giving yourself excuses as to why you don't have one. Money is money, even if you have to swallow your pride and work somewhere you would really care not to. And yes, a successful career woman would gradually see you as a loser and a user if you don't start earning your own living.

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  • sek_c_b1tch
    14 years ago | pl

    ffs make ur own mind up, jesus. you indecisive prick. that's the gayest question ever. if you think ur fucking soulmates then bang the chick, get her pregnant, she says she wants to keep it, then punch her stomach really hard and rape her, making her pregnant again.
    that should teach you to post dumb things on the internet. ask your gay friends.

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    • RobRey25msncom
      14 years ago | pl

      Wow...look who learned how to write.

      Don't worry...I won't tell anyone you still jerk off because you can't get laid.

      But hey, not to worry...Because of your attitude, you'll end up in prison, where you'll be able to get laid all the time....Don't drop the soap bitch!

      By the way.............LMFAO @ U !!!!!

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