I don't think it's normal what your parents are doing. I think they are infantilizing you. They are treating you like a child, even though you are an adult. I know that might not sound like it's a big deal, but it really is. It can mess you up big time. I am around your age (I am 20) and I have been infantilized, and it really messed with my head.
I think you should get a job, move out, and buy your own laptop. Not so you can see a vagina, but so that your parents can see that you are an adult who is going to do adult things.
and what do you mean you have no conflicts with your parents? they are pretending you are a child. that is a conflict. unless you don't mind being treated like a child, which is a whole other issue.
What does a vagina look like?
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Yes, they are extra paranoid about porn. The porn monster gives them nightmares.
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porn monster??? what???
I don't think it's normal what your parents are doing. I think they are infantilizing you. They are treating you like a child, even though you are an adult. I know that might not sound like it's a big deal, but it really is. It can mess you up big time. I am around your age (I am 20) and I have been infantilized, and it really messed with my head.
I think you should get a job, move out, and buy your own laptop. Not so you can see a vagina, but so that your parents can see that you are an adult who is going to do adult things.
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My parents sort of infantalize themselves. I have no conflicts with my parents, but if I moved out, there would be very little reason to return.
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Check proxies, failing that, try playboy. Don't know where they sell porn magazines anymore... Or get a girlfriend.
yikes! this doesn't sound good at all.
and what do you mean you have no conflicts with your parents? they are pretending you are a child. that is a conflict. unless you don't mind being treated like a child, which is a whole other issue.
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They are also pretending that they themselves are children.
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That's bad, too.