What do you think of it???

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Hello guys, I'm quite a new person here. I'm 19 and there is a guy in my life who is 30 and he has very special and strong feelings towards me. We have known each other for 8 months. I have almost been ignoring his feelings (because of his age) but his feeling are too strong and now it seems to me that i would like him to be my boyfriend and it seems to me that even I started loving him.......
Do you think that the age gap is really big????? pls help me........................ if you have any more questions, pls don't hesitate to ask.
i'm looking forward to any reply and advice and opinion about this...

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Beyonce and Jay-Z are 12 years apart; you're only 11 years apart.

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  • 12koft
    12 years ago | pl

    Modern family

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  • scarfface
    14 years ago | pl

    forget about age. the age gap is not so big. my grandpa is 16 years older than my grandma, and they've been married for over 50 years.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago | pl

    To me its not the age gap in years but in maturity and stages of life. The differences between a 50 & 40 year old versus 20 & 10 year old are not just 10 years.

    So look at where you are at in other things beside the difference in years - needs to experience & explore independence, completion of school, settled (or not) in career, whether or when you want family/children. That as well as personal chemistry. The years may matter a little or a lot.

    I'm a little concerned that you speak mainly of his strong feelings & hope you mainly go with your own feelings in what you decide. Is some of this that you feel flattered & obliged to do something about the strong impression you have made with him? Just wondering ...

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  • forehind
    14 years ago | pl

    Do as your heart says. Love does not have an age. And if it feels right to you, dont find excuses, just say 'I did it because I wanted to'. Life is short, those who are lucky to find love should enjoy it.

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  • rita_skeeter
    14 years ago | pl

    if your happy...what does it matter if he's a hundred

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