I still don't understand WHY you're considering plastic surgery.
From your last line of "whether men would find this unattractive?" I'm going to guess that means you are doing it to get more men interested in you. But your first sentence already says you're attractive and you're getting males interested in you... so are they just unattractive to you or what?
Don't say you're considering plastic surgery for other people (to find you attractive). It's only for you. You have to realize this. You're doing to this to make yourself feel more attractive, or more like a magazine model (probably). It's a cliché to say, but humans (can still be) beautiful the way they (physically) are. It's like 60% attitude at least if not more. And seriously, most (straight) men like curves over rail-thin models anyway (biological attraction to find mother able to produce and nourish babies). If you naturally have a tummy, you probably also have tits, right?
And what type of men are you looking for? If it's for a quick fuck, it's reasonable you want to fuck (sorry, I mean have really great sex, I'm not going to judge one-night stands or friends with benefits, but you know what I mean: quick sex) the handsome Hilfiger models, then no, they probably don't care if you had plastic surgery. They might if they have a fetish for "natural"ness... but unlikely?
If you're looking for a more serious relationship with men... then your physical attractiveness is important, but it's not THE most important thing. Honestly, men want the mother of their babies to have brains and a personality. I'm a woman and I find this sort of thinking really immature or insulting: men are humans who want relationships too. Like, real relationships.
And also, don't look for the easy way out. Like what everyone has said here: TRY EXERCISING. Plastic surgery to get rid of your tummy is expensive, and I'm pretty sure there is a possibility of permanent side effects.
Try getting some supportive friends, please question your motives. As a fellow woman, I'm saying this out of serious concern for your wallet and mental wellbeing.
TL;DR? Final verdict: Get more confidence, not plastic surgery.
What do you think of girls who get plastic surgery?
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Wow. Okay. This will probably be a long comment.
I still don't understand WHY you're considering plastic surgery.
From your last line of "whether men would find this unattractive?" I'm going to guess that means you are doing it to get more men interested in you. But your first sentence already says you're attractive and you're getting males interested in you... so are they just unattractive to you or what?
Don't say you're considering plastic surgery for other people (to find you attractive). It's only for you. You have to realize this. You're doing to this to make yourself feel more attractive, or more like a magazine model (probably). It's a cliché to say, but humans (can still be) beautiful the way they (physically) are. It's like 60% attitude at least if not more. And seriously, most (straight) men like curves over rail-thin models anyway (biological attraction to find mother able to produce and nourish babies). If you naturally have a tummy, you probably also have tits, right?
And what type of men are you looking for? If it's for a quick fuck, it's reasonable you want to fuck (sorry, I mean have really great sex, I'm not going to judge one-night stands or friends with benefits, but you know what I mean: quick sex) the handsome Hilfiger models, then no, they probably don't care if you had plastic surgery. They might if they have a fetish for "natural"ness... but unlikely?
If you're looking for a more serious relationship with men... then your physical attractiveness is important, but it's not THE most important thing. Honestly, men want the mother of their babies to have brains and a personality. I'm a woman and I find this sort of thinking really immature or insulting: men are humans who want relationships too. Like, real relationships.
And also, don't look for the easy way out. Like what everyone has said here: TRY EXERCISING. Plastic surgery to get rid of your tummy is expensive, and I'm pretty sure there is a possibility of permanent side effects.
Try getting some supportive friends, please question your motives. As a fellow woman, I'm saying this out of serious concern for your wallet and mental wellbeing.
TL;DR? Final verdict: Get more confidence, not plastic surgery.