I think it's sexy and attractive when I can sense a girl who is in touch with her sexuality and who is sensual. That doesn't mean that I like girls who sleep around for feelings of approval, to fill a hole in their life, out of boredom, out of competition with other girls, or really anything like that.
I absolutely can find a girl with a high sex drive very attractive. A girl who can be sexy, sensual, and soothing is very attractive. But it is most attractive if she lets it show in more subtle ways to the casual observer. It's more attractive if she has some class. It's more attractive if she has some self respect.
Obnoxious, drunk girls at parties wearing almost no clothing are not really that sexy to me. It's not that they're not pretty, they just don't seem very warm and/or inviting. I think that being sexy is about all the little things about a person that build sexual suspense. If you scream to the world that you're looking to fuck someone, that's not really "Sexy".
I think that women, just as men, have a choice when it comes to how many people they sleep with and how those encounters happen. You slowly start to become more and more influenced by what you do over time.
I don't really care that much about the number, but obviously if it's over like 10, that's a lot of swallow (no pun intended). I think what would stop me from being with someone who had a higher count of sexual partners would just be the fact that my personality and my idea of sexuality and love and all those things wouldn't match up in most cases to someone who has been around the block a lot. But if there was someone who I really felt strongly about who had a lot of sex before me, I wouldn't completely rule it out.
What do you think of a slutty girl?
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I think it's sexy and attractive when I can sense a girl who is in touch with her sexuality and who is sensual. That doesn't mean that I like girls who sleep around for feelings of approval, to fill a hole in their life, out of boredom, out of competition with other girls, or really anything like that.
I absolutely can find a girl with a high sex drive very attractive. A girl who can be sexy, sensual, and soothing is very attractive. But it is most attractive if she lets it show in more subtle ways to the casual observer. It's more attractive if she has some class. It's more attractive if she has some self respect.
Obnoxious, drunk girls at parties wearing almost no clothing are not really that sexy to me. It's not that they're not pretty, they just don't seem very warm and/or inviting. I think that being sexy is about all the little things about a person that build sexual suspense. If you scream to the world that you're looking to fuck someone, that's not really "Sexy".
I think that women, just as men, have a choice when it comes to how many people they sleep with and how those encounters happen. You slowly start to become more and more influenced by what you do over time.
I don't really care that much about the number, but obviously if it's over like 10, that's a lot of swallow (no pun intended). I think what would stop me from being with someone who had a higher count of sexual partners would just be the fact that my personality and my idea of sexuality and love and all those things wouldn't match up in most cases to someone who has been around the block a lot. But if there was someone who I really felt strongly about who had a lot of sex before me, I wouldn't completely rule it out.