What do you think about sex?

This is a question about what you think about sex. I will not say my personal opinion on it but I added many options. Please all pick what you think about having sex age 11 up. What do you think? Do you think kids doing it as young as 11 is a good thing or a bad thing. I already made up my opinion. Know this is for research purposes. I am trying to find the over all average and opinions. Also please no answers of pedophilia or about rape because if I get any of that I will copy your message and send it to management in feedback. So please no illegal answers. So what age do you think it is ok to be having sex. A lot of people do not think sex matters at any age.

I think you should wiat 4
I think it is choice 5
I think that it is bad for health to do it before ment/psychical ready 9
I think everyone should do it as young as they want 4
I will do anything I am a pervert 3
I think intelligent people wait 3
I think with whoever you think loves you 1
I am asexual 7
I think not till over the age of 18 3
I think not till over the age of 25 0
I think since everyone is doing it I will assume it is the right thing 1
I think you should wait till you are married 5
I do not think it matter the age long as you use a condom 4
I think not till you are old enough to carry kids case condom breaks 3
This poll has a lot of chioces 13
I think you should wait but should not judge those who do not 3
It is not nesscary unless you want kids 1
I think we should get rid of sex all together 1
I hate sex 6
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  • PumpkinKate

    11?? Christ...

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    • That is no exaggeration either. I knew girls and boys doing it at that age. They are just getting younger and younger too.

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      • PumpkinKate

        There will always be deviations from the average, but I'd wager they're the exceptions to the rule. Can't go much younger, even with the hormone-induced food we give our kids, puberty and sexual maturity still take *some* time.

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        • sega31098

          Some people hit puberty before 10. Not that I advocate pedophilia.

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          • http://familydoctor.org/familydoctor/en/teens/puberty-sexuality/sex-making-the-right-decision.html

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          • Yes they do. It does not mean they are ready for sex. Actually studies have said that when you start puberty your body is not ready for sex since it is not finished developing.

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            • sega31098

              I know they're not ready for sex.

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        • Yes it has to have a cut off somewhere.

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          • PumpkinKate

            But I suppose to answer your question it seems to me that like 15-19 is a more appropriate age, at least I hope so for when I have kids, but as the great and talented Bob Dylan said, "These times, they are a' changin'"

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            • Sad that they are when dignity and self respect and manners is so disregarded.

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  • dom180

    I think what'd be best for me's waiting for a time, place and person that I could not regret it with.

    I think everyone else should do what they like, but should use protection unless they are ready to bring a kid into this world. Different people have different views on sex and how it relates to love. Telling people to wait for love to have sex so that sex is special if they don't want sex to be special, they want it to be fun, won't make a difference.

    Sex means different things to different people and the only message we should push onto kids about sex is that whether you have sex or not, who with and when is your choice and yours alone, and no choice you make is better or worse than any other (just make sure you don't get landed with a kid if you can't deal with one).

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  • dappled

    A friend of mine was nine. Difficult to know if it harmed him but he did have a nervous breakdown. It'd be remiss if I didn't mention that the nervous breakdown came after a tour of duty in a warzone.

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    • What has that got to do with the question I posted?

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      • dappled

        I thought your question was about young people having sex and whether it's a good thing or a bad thing. I might have read that wrongly, though, so sorry!

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        • It was but what does any of that have to do with your war story?

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          • dappled

            The whole story was about a friend who had sex aged nine and began to destabilise resulting in a nervous breakdown when under stress. I included that it happened during wartime for balance so that people could form their own opinions.

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            • Justsomejerk

              You fool, no one wants unbiased information allowing them to make an informed opinion.

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  • Imposturously_yours

    I consider myself asexual and I really dislike how much attention we pay to our reproduction.

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    • I understand that.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    waiting is good.

    I know some people like saying "oh she is mature for her age" etc but... that's a bit of a copout.

    hell even in the early teens, most kids aren't really prepared in body and mind - or finances - to accept the consequences of their actions. i mean if mommy and daddy are still paying the bills, then it's a bit silly to think one is "mature" enough to start enjoying adult activities.

    or in a nutshell, it's easy for children to think themselves wise when someone else is shouldering the responsibility.

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    • Well I would take that if they are smart and no how to take care of themselves but not sex. Since regardless of how smart or grown up a child is in their mine they have not become an adult until after a certien age. Also a mature child would not be having sex since kids have it because they are reckless a truly mature child would wait.

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

        if they're not an adult until a specific age then ... it's good to hold off on trying to taste the fruits of reaching adulthood until that age is reached

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        • dude_Jones

          Hi Angel, Your responses are a cut above the rest. But wouldn't you think there are a few 17 year olds that are capable of committed caring and sexual completeness? I wish there were a good litmus test.

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          • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

            the local age of consent laws can be followed.

            However consider that many children that age aren't yet even supporting themselves financially. Yet they're suppose to be "mature" enough to engage in adult activities?

            It's easy for one to claim to be "mature" when someone else is paying the bills and shouldering the responsibility.

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    I think it's best to wait til you're ready, but that age is completely dependant on the individual. Lots of young teens just aren't quite mature enough for that sort of thing. They assume they're gonna marry the first person they're with, they're often ignorant about how to have a healthy relationship with someone, you throw sex into the mix and you're gonna add even more emotional intensity to a person who really doesn't know how to be with someone yet.

    Plus, you know, pregnancy and safe sex and AIDS and all that shit. Gotta be mature enough to be safe and ask the difficult questions.

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    • You are completely right. I have met young men and women who go around sleeping with everyone they date and swear to merciful heavens that they will marry that person. They never do and I just look at them thinking "Do you honestly think that is how it works"? They think sex sets it in stone but it never will.

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      • shade_ilmaendu

        Probably just the oxytocin talking (if I spelled that right). I saw a post on here once, not sure if it was legitimate or just a troll, of a girl talking about problems with her bf or something. Violently opposing anyone who told her this might not be forever with the "You don't know how I feel!"

        Actually, yeah I do. Because all of us felt that same way at one point. Then you go through a relationship or two and realise what we were trying to tell you in the first place.

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        • Even if he was to stay with him forever it takes two to have a relationship and her feelings are only one part of the equation.

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  • Gelmurag

    "I am trying to find the over all average and opinions"

    Based on? Your culture? My culture? World view? History of humanity? You didn't define this.

    "Also please no answers of pedophilia or about rape because if I get any of that I will copy your message and send it to management in feedback"

    So someone sharing their pleasant/unpleasant experience will cause you to send it to management? What if they are sharing an experience to help corroborate an opinion? What happened to the freedom of speech?

    "So please no illegal answers."

    Again, all cultures have different views on what is illegal or not illegal.

    "A lot of people do not think sex matters at any age."

    If that were true, there wouldn't be laws regarding age of consent, or regulations on marriages. It also would invalidate your previous two qualms of not posting illegal content, or no rape stories.

    I find it interesting that innocent questions about puberty are declined, but topics like this are immediately approved.

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    • No I meant I did not want someone to say. "I want to rape little boys or something a long that matter since I was talking about sex".

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      • MissyLeyneous

        OAO You do what?? I'm gonna report you to management!!

        Just kidding. :/

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        • That would be lying.

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          • MissyLeyneous

            Just look at all the fucks I give...

            It's literally raining fucks in here.

            /sarcasm.

            (I was being nice to you, until that little snide remark.)

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            • I just stated a fact. I do not know how it is rude? It was impartial. It has no negative or positive connotation. Oh now I just feel like a nerd.

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  • anti-hero

    Me man.

    Me like put penis in vagina go boom!

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    • Thanks for the sarcasm.

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      • anti-hero

        Me no have cognitive ability for make sarcasm.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    Wow OP is a bitch. Don't do this. Don't do that. I'll report you. Oooooohhh! Good job dick head.

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    • I am not a bitch. I just do not want people trolling my poll kind of like you are doing now.

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      • squeallikeasacofpigs

        Oh god you're such a stuck up little bitch! Wow.

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  • SQUEEZETHEFATTIEMAKEHERCRY

    Too many choices. Lost interest afer the fifth one. Lol

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  • TheOv3rminD

    High five fellow perverts!

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  • Terence_the_viking

    It's Squishy Squishy sticky slimy funny runny gooey goodness.

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  • ccjigsaw

    I disagree that children should be doing it. However, there is a reason we get sexual at certain ages. Times have also changed where society wants people to wait until they are 18 in some instances. But in the past you could already be a mother by 16! So have people really been having sex younger and younger, or has nature taken it's natural coarse? I honestly believe 14 and up is a natural time to be exploring sexuality. 13 is on the rocks. Anything below that is to soon. The age things are just my opinions.

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  • yesnomaybeso

    11 years old is crazy. They should be getting their first kiss at that age, not their first dick!

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  • You should be able to have sex when you are capable and mentally mature enough to understand its effects.

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  • sega31098

    I think it's preferable that you save it for your life partner, but I can't judge others for not. In fact, though I'm trying, there's still an over 50% chance that I won't.

    Personally, instead of one man woman, I would prefer a harem marriage, where a group of people get married altogether, with no gender head (like no man controlling group of woman and vice versa). I still would like to be happy having one man one woman.

    As for age, I don't feel disgusted if it's 13+, but as soon as one of the partners is pre-pubescent, I start to feel sick.

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    • Just for the record a lot of kids hit it at 11 not 13 as some people might assume. Some may assume it is after that but often cases it is sooner. Also 11 year old is young for kids to be fooling around each other but that is often the year they hit puberty. It also takes a few years for the hormones to balance out.

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      • sega31098

        I know, but puberty is the VERY minimum that I'll accept before I start feeling sick. I don't approve of newly pubescent people having sex, but it's still not as bad as premature children doing it.

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        • What you say makes no sense since children beyond that age have little motivation to have sex. They have sex if pushed into it and anything beyond puberty is usually an adult or pedophile.

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          • sega31098

            Sorry. When I say "puberty" I mean being capable of feeling horny and orgasming. There are 13 year olds having sex, and I used to masturbate quite a bit when I was 13. And yes, there are 13 year olds having sex by themselves.

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  • Legion

    11 is a little too young, but I think any time after about 13-14, but only if you are completely prepared for any and all consequences.

    more than likely, i would lean on the older side, cause I dont think a lot of people would be ready at 14. a few might.

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    • robbieforgotpw

      14 yr olds have good jobs or will they just kill the baby?

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      • What 14 year old has a job good enough to own rent and care for children? Minimum wage is still not fantastic income. Also 14 year old can not work in a lot of places by law.

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        • SQUEEZETHEFATTIEMAKEHERCRY

          No 14 year old is living on her own and if she is some old man is making her pay by forcing himself on her

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        • robbieforgotpw

          Then you got the point. Too early to risk having a child. Of course, Planned Murder, I mean parenthood, wouldn't mind if they kill the newborn.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Yep everyone does it

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  • dirtybirdy

    I've been around plenty of 11 year olds and the thought of them having sex is absolutely nauseating. As mature as they like to think they are, they just aren't. They know what sex is but by no means should they be having it. I say at least 15 is acceptable in most circumstances.

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  • CollegeIsNotAsAwesomeAsIImagin

    i used to get hand jobs from my neighbor girl when i was like 7 she game head at 9 and i had sex with her when i was 9 and a half. I had the best childhood experimenting with sex. Of course nowadays she would be in jail at the time i popped her virgin asshole she was 17 i was 12

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    • anti-hero

      You sir are quite the bad ass mother fucker.

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      • CollegeIsNotAsAwesomeAsIImagin

        well it was great, i was one of the few lucky people that get to experience this. And now at my almost adult age i have go throught the pleasing me part, my ex- girlfriend sure wants to get back toguether after she realized how mechanical the sex boys nowadays give is. Im like make your girl feel in heaven, it pleases me more than anything. Once women are hot, you know she will fuck your brainsout

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