well if people stopped obsessing over their looks & how attractive they need to be before they seek a man/woman might be a good start? yes take care of yourself take pride but just sick of hearing about people thinking they are not good enough just because somebody else is better looking than them & then theres the others who think they are gods gift & wont date anyone because they cannot find the perfect looking woman/man & are jealous or scared what their friends might think if they are not upto their standards, relationships always start off great but then many are hiding behind the real them, when its the honeymoon period things are great, after that is when things begin to change & your relationship gets put to the test, many people after a while stop caring about themselves or do the complete opposite & become completely selfish, people get comfortable, sometimes expect too much, do you favours but then blackmail you & think they own you because your going out with them, I've experienced it all, selfishness, obssessions, jealousy, bossyness, their insecurity, acused of cheating, been cheated on, been lied to, been betrayed, been stolen from, (yes my own wife whos now an ex) been both physically & emotionally hurt, domestic violence, does anybody really want all that drama in their lives when there are these type of people out there? but yes on the other hand there are some good types of people who are genuine & god they must be the most luckiest type of people in the world, to have found somebody who is the right one & in a happy settled relationship!
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well if people stopped obsessing over their looks & how attractive they need to be before they seek a man/woman might be a good start? yes take care of yourself take pride but just sick of hearing about people thinking they are not good enough just because somebody else is better looking than them & then theres the others who think they are gods gift & wont date anyone because they cannot find the perfect looking woman/man & are jealous or scared what their friends might think if they are not upto their standards, relationships always start off great but then many are hiding behind the real them, when its the honeymoon period things are great, after that is when things begin to change & your relationship gets put to the test, many people after a while stop caring about themselves or do the complete opposite & become completely selfish, people get comfortable, sometimes expect too much, do you favours but then blackmail you & think they own you because your going out with them, I've experienced it all, selfishness, obssessions, jealousy, bossyness, their insecurity, acused of cheating, been cheated on, been lied to, been betrayed, been stolen from, (yes my own wife whos now an ex) been both physically & emotionally hurt, domestic violence, does anybody really want all that drama in their lives when there are these type of people out there? but yes on the other hand there are some good types of people who are genuine & god they must be the most luckiest type of people in the world, to have found somebody who is the right one & in a happy settled relationship!