I'm a girl and I look for a guy who has the following:
1. A brain. He doesn't have to be really smart, but at least not a complete dumbass. Plus, common sense too. I actually favor common sense a little more than the regular book smart type. But either is fine. And I noticed the guys who have a little more smarts, easily carry a conversation better. Sometimes I think thats good for me, because it makes me feel more comfortable knowing that they're actually trying, then I begin to talk more. It makes up for me in a way, I guess.
2. Must have a good sense of humor. I don't laugh as often as I think I should, so a guy who can make me laugh would be awesome.
3. Decent looking. I don't pay a lot of attention to the body, but they should at least be healthy looking. Not 500 pounds, or skinnier then me.(And I'm skinny!) And I'm mainly about the face, so if they have a good looking face, thats a good thing. I'm not really picky choosy about anything else. But I noticed I'm into dark eyes on men more than lighter eyes.
4. Accents are hot. But if they don't have one..., its ok. Some things can be overlooked.
5. This ties into #1; I hope they're aware of whats happening around them (around the world). Its nice when they watch the news/read the newspaper. Just keeping themselves updated with whats going on out there is nice.
6. That they have a job. And if they don't, that they're at least looking for one.
7. That they like music. They don't have to like the exact type of music as myself, but seriously, if they don't like music at all... thats just crazy.
8. Must have some common ground to walk on. We should have not all, but at least some of the same interests. (And I don't think I'd be able to deal with a guy who says hes scared of the ocean.) And he would like to travel if given the chance, because I wanna travel.
9. Wants kids in the future.
10. And obviously these are big ones: Honesty, trustworthiness, non-judgemental of others, morals, and I would hope they have some belief in God. I'm not like a crazy religious type, but I do believe in God, and I try to go to church at least once in a while. So...
Some of the things on here, its possible I could overlook, and I might've missed some other things on my list, but thats about it. Oh yeah, and they better like me for me and be kinda family oriented. And not a cheater. And they need to be financially secure.
What do you mainly look for in a long term partner?
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I'm a girl and I look for a guy who has the following:
1. A brain. He doesn't have to be really smart, but at least not a complete dumbass. Plus, common sense too. I actually favor common sense a little more than the regular book smart type. But either is fine. And I noticed the guys who have a little more smarts, easily carry a conversation better. Sometimes I think thats good for me, because it makes me feel more comfortable knowing that they're actually trying, then I begin to talk more. It makes up for me in a way, I guess.
2. Must have a good sense of humor. I don't laugh as often as I think I should, so a guy who can make me laugh would be awesome.
3. Decent looking. I don't pay a lot of attention to the body, but they should at least be healthy looking. Not 500 pounds, or skinnier then me.(And I'm skinny!) And I'm mainly about the face, so if they have a good looking face, thats a good thing. I'm not really picky choosy about anything else. But I noticed I'm into dark eyes on men more than lighter eyes.
4. Accents are hot. But if they don't have one..., its ok. Some things can be overlooked.
5. This ties into #1; I hope they're aware of whats happening around them (around the world). Its nice when they watch the news/read the newspaper. Just keeping themselves updated with whats going on out there is nice.
6. That they have a job. And if they don't, that they're at least looking for one.
7. That they like music. They don't have to like the exact type of music as myself, but seriously, if they don't like music at all... thats just crazy.
8. Must have some common ground to walk on. We should have not all, but at least some of the same interests. (And I don't think I'd be able to deal with a guy who says hes scared of the ocean.) And he would like to travel if given the chance, because I wanna travel.
9. Wants kids in the future.
10. And obviously these are big ones: Honesty, trustworthiness, non-judgemental of others, morals, and I would hope they have some belief in God. I'm not like a crazy religious type, but I do believe in God, and I try to go to church at least once in a while. So...
Some of the things on here, its possible I could overlook, and I might've missed some other things on my list, but thats about it. Oh yeah, and they better like me for me and be kinda family oriented. And not a cheater. And they need to be financially secure.