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cheating as in the kind in a relationship, not a board game. :p
for the talking option, if you are in a gay relationship then i guess it could be talking with someone of the same sex haha :)
| Flirting with someone other than their partner | 44 | |
| Kissing someone other than their partner | 86 | |
| Making love with someone other than their partner | 74 | |
| Talking with someone other than their partner (of the opposite sex) | 4 | |
| Anything that makes their partner feel uncomfortable | 104 |
I'm surprised at the amount of votes in the "anything that makes your partner feel uncomfortable" category. At a certain point your partner really just needs to learn to trust you or suck it up. A relationship will never work if the people in it have to walk on eggshells.
I think emotional cheating and falling in love with someone is cheating. Sometimes physical sex is okay and it actually helps couples stay together. Some people need different sexual partners, but I believe as long as you love your bf/gf sometimes physical sex will safe a relationship. There is nothing more important than the emotional bond people have.
DUDE, you should get an option for :
"All of the above :)"
seriously, if i had a boyfriend, i would get all paranoid!!
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Talking to another female can hardly be considered cheating. Falling in love, having sex(of any kind), kissing, or hitting on another woman is cheating. Having a conversation with or befriending another female is not cheating. People who think that way are far too paranoid and aren't comfortable with their relationships, and probably shouldn't be in a relationship to begin with.
Well If The Girl is using her mouth alot, but isn't doing much talking
I guess we can say thats cheating
I'm surprised oral sex isn't on here. That is kind of a big fence to cross (or not) for a lot of people.
Sex, kissing, and flirting are all cheating.
Talking like regular is not cheating.
Depends on what makes them uncomfortable. Some stuff is understandable, other things are just them being jealous for no reason.
I talked about this with my BF before .... basically our rule was if your gonna cheet or must go down that road with another girl then have BJ only ... that wouldnt bother me much ,, the thing that would piss me off is if he's hanging out with her and talking in deep conversation .. and ofcourse full intercourse would also bother ,,, but BJ's seem very casual to me ... there isnt emotional attachment or anything much when i give them and i think most girls feel that way.
I'd say none of the above. Cheating is lying and sneaking. True betrayal is defined by presenting yourself to your significant other as something you're not.. above any sexual contact or fantasy.
I think it's normal to flirt with people other than your partner as long as it doesn't go anywhere, the kind of friendly flirty that's vague and harmless. There is a line that can be crossed though with this, and it shouldn't be done with anyone but close friends.
That's debatable cause it could be kissing, flirting, sex/sexual activities, especially emotional cheating.
if you're physical with a person in ways that you know your partner wouldn't agree of its cheating. You can't always help how you feel,you can help what you do.
Cheating is doing something your partner would disapprove and without their knowledge. Cheating requires betrayal.
My boyfriend knows I do things with other men, although he often disapproves.
There need to be more options, to accommodate how society feels...
Thinking about someone other than their partner
Falling in love with someone else [assuming the relationship is monogamous]
Mentioning fantasies of other people in front of partner
As for me: nothing is cheating unless it involves falling in love with someone. NOTHING. If that was the case, people would generally be a lot happier in their relationships, I think.
I think it may be a combination of all those things. Sex is the worst one up there but it all starts with flirting and kissing. If someone did that to me, they would remember this face for the rest of their lives.
flirting is ok when its not too much.
i do it myself, c'mon even a quick look or a smile can be a flirt, or at least the person thinks you are flirting with him/her.
for me cheating starts with kissing or serious touching
You guys, I don't think the slut above talking about the girl who got the abortion is actually serious, or even a girl for that matter. That said,
I think if you are insecure about your partner's actions - that is cheating. Even if in actuality it's not cheating. . . your insecurity loses you the upper-hand anyway so you might as well quit blaming yourself and follow your instincts and find someone who cares about you.