What do you argue about?

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  • dappled
    12 years ago | pl

    In my relationships, arguments have usually not been about the thing that's really bothering one of us. Something gets blown up out of proportion (like not emptying the dishwasher) and it's only later you find out it's because one of you was insecure or irritated about something entirely different.

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    • MissClaire
      12 years ago | pl

      So true, I mean no sane person could be that mad about not emptying the dishwasher (for example) - its 99% of the time something else.
      Its all about respect, try not to lash out at your sig other re: stupid shit derived from the real issue - talk about the real issue - it always feels better.

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      • dappled
        12 years ago | pl

        MissClaire! Where have you been hiding? I thought you'd gone away. As for the advice, I couldn't agree with you more. Honesty is by far the best policy.

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        • MissClaire
          12 years ago | pl

          lol, been crazy at work lately... gets in the way sometimes ;)
          Nice to be back..... seeing everyone again....... reading your wisdome.
          Nice to see/talk to you again too! You never stop making me laugh slash make me feel normal :)

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