What do i do when my girlfriend wants to have sex?

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I'm just starting to get in a relationship with a woman three years older than I, and I'm scared about what to do when she wants to have sex. I'm eighteen, never had sex, never had friends to tell me about it. When I was 11, I saw my younger sister naked, so since then, I've been curious only. Drives me nuts! I'm an extreme introvert, and I'm sweating at the thought of her asking to stay the night.
I need sex advice! I've only picked up bits here and there, but still feel very unconfident!

Research beforehand. 27
Tell her no. 6
Ask her to show me how. 86
Practice with a friend(no friends) 6
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  • randypete
    7 years ago

    it is great fun learning ask her

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  • Drphillis
    7 years ago

    Your natural instincts will take over when the time comes, at worst you will just have to confide in her and she will take over from there.

    Before you know it she will have taught you the ways of life and you will be looking forward to your next sexual experience!

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  • Blueslover
    7 years ago

    Sex isn't just about putting the right thing in the right place, and there's lot to try out and enjoy before you get to intercourse. You'll be fine.

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  • pimpjuicy
    6 years ago

    Why don't you see if your sister will let you practice on her? It's not like she's going to tell anyone if you're no good

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    Well don't listen to idiots telling you to watch porn. It will be nothing like porn your first time hun haha.

    Just tell her the truth and have fun. She'll let you know what to do.

    I have been with a few virgin guys, and the reality is it's cute.

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  • SuzyJBag
    6 years ago

    Make sure you rub garlic on your penis and tell her to put couscous on her vagina!! this is literally my favourite ;)

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  • Magicbeast
    7 years ago

    Check out porn sites so you can get an idea of how to do it right.

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  • Cheet0
    7 years ago

    Ask her! She will be glad to show u how if you are honest with her...

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  • somerandomopinion
    7 years ago

    i hate to admit it but in this case porn is the answer. you can learn a lot and it wont be considered cheating

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  • ThingTwo
    7 years ago

    Trust her. She will help you thru it. She wants you to feel loved.

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  • Keepsake
    7 years ago

    If you think you're ready for sex and want to do it, then do it. If you don't want to do it and don't feel ready, then don't. If your girlfriend loves you, she won't care how good you are. You'll have all the practice in the world with her.

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  • herpesfreesince93
    7 years ago

    Tell her you have a headache

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  • COCKSUCKERS
    7 years ago

    Has your gf ever seen you naked or have you ever seen her naked ?
    Has she ever had sex before ?
    If not , has she ever seen a male's naked boner cock in person ?

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