What do i do i really need

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So, im in collage and I have this room mate who is a bi guy and im gay. then we kissed after having a few drinks then I woke up in bed so I apparently slept with him. he is really attractive. the problem is im in a relationship... I am seeing my boyfriend this weekend and I do not know what to do!!! My roommate apparently thinks that were dating too when we both woke up he kissed me, and told me good morning please help and comment.
Love ya
Gavin<3,

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  • Spankz
    8 years ago | pl

    Looks like you're going to have to come clean to your boyfriend. He deserves to know the truth.

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    • Gavin0420
      8 years ago | pl

      I know, but I love him so much..
      <3 Gavin,

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      • Jweezee
        8 years ago | pl

        Then why are you fucking around on him?....<3 Jon

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      • Spankz
        8 years ago | pl

        I know, but hiding from him will only make it worse. You made a mistake, it's human error. I don't agree with cheating and I would never do it myself, but maybe he will understand.

        If at the end of the day he wants to break-up, then that's just the way it goes. Don't hide it from him, because if he ends up finding out a few years up the road it will be much worse.

        As for your roommate, you need to tell him that you guys are NOT dating. Convey that message as clearly as possible, make sure there is absolutely no miscommunication.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    8 years ago | pl

    You need to tell your roommate you're not dating him and you need to tell your boyfriend what happened. You'll probably lose your friendship with your roommate and your relationship with your boyfriend, but it's the only thing you can do to try to fix it.

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    • Gavin0420
      8 years ago | pl

      I really like and love my boyfriend and I do not want to tell him because I am afraid of him breaking up with me I do not want to lie to him, and I do not want to loose him. what do I do?

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      • Cuntsiclestick
        8 years ago | pl

        You're going to have to tell him the truth and hope he forgives you. Lying will only make things worse.

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      • noid
        8 years ago | pl

        Find a different roommate for starters, so this does not continue.

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        • CountessDouche
          8 years ago | pl

          Thumbs up. I agree.

          Assuming the boyfriend can get past the whole cheating thing, I highly doubt he would be comfortable with OP rooming with the dude he cheated with.

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  • snowyshadow
    8 years ago | pl

    You are in COLLEGE.

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  • Gavin0420
    8 years ago | pl

    Thank you all so much for your help and I am going to tell him today... I am afraid on what he might say or do, but you guys are right.
    love you all <3
    Gavin,

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