What do i do

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I'm 52. Prostate cancer survivor, 4th marriage. I spoke with my 3rd ex during my recovery and this made my current unhappy. We have been part now 30 days, all through Christmas and New Years. My heart is broken, I don't hate, I also did not contact my ex, she contacted me. I want to mention we did have some legal stuff to concluded your marriage, and still this has upset my current wife.

it doesn't seem to matter if it's an ex or any women I speak with she just seems to be so insecure.

She seems to hate, nephews wife, my mother, and some of the women at her work ( 4 days in ) .

Any advise would be great.

Was I wrong to have any contact with my ex? And if so I have none now. Changed my number , changed my email. What more can I do?

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  • jaystrong
    6 years ago

    If anything your current wife should be happy you survived, not angry and not talking to you for that long! Not a great way to go on her part. Very selfish. Again, I don't know the whole details. Was property or money involved with the 3rd wife that might have upset your current? Maybe it's time for that 5th wife!?!!

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  • jaystrong
    6 years ago

    Congrats on surviving cancer and that many marriages!!!

    The holidays can be tough for some more than others.
    If you didn't contact your ex and the main reason was due to legal issues, I don't see the problem.

    Not knowing the whole story I might question why your current wife is upset? Maybe you have a history of cheating or doing more for another? I mean - you've been married 4 times!?!? Not bashing at all, but that's a bit more than usual.

    MANY relationships have those who can't stand the mother in law or various family members. It is what it is, but she's not married to them. She's married to you. Don't worry about that. Worry about her. Regarding your ex? Make sure the legal issues are complete and tell her to stop contacting you. Explain this better to your current wife. Be honest and tell her you always will be.

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    I'd go for Mambo no.5, if you know what I mean. Very selfish from her to abandon you on holidays for no actual reason. Unhealthy relationship. Get rid of it. Life is short and tough and you know it better. Also, you might want to spend more time with a partner before deciding to marry, so you can save up some cash

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