a.: They should go ahead and have one. But i don't parade my vibrators or toys around. I have them, but my parents and grandparents could come over for tea any time with no probable chance of running into them.
After all, it's not like i'm leaving them on the dinner table. Not because it's a taboo or wrong, but because it's something personal. And just as much as i only want to share this with select people, i don't want it "rubbed" into my face from others, either.
So i'm totally fine with guys having sex toys, as long as they are not prominently displayed. That makes it neither "cool" nor "lame", it's your decision and i really couldn't care less if they do it by hand or with toy-help, just as much as i don't judge other girls for either preference.
b.: guys having vibrators and stuff: only if they seem to have top class cleanliness in their flat, superb hygiene etc...i mean, i dunno where this stuff went before, and now he wants to put that in me? I have to feel really confident with him caring/cleaning and handling toys properly.
What are your opinions on guys owning sex toys?
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cool is definitely the wrong word.
a.: They should go ahead and have one. But i don't parade my vibrators or toys around. I have them, but my parents and grandparents could come over for tea any time with no probable chance of running into them.
After all, it's not like i'm leaving them on the dinner table. Not because it's a taboo or wrong, but because it's something personal. And just as much as i only want to share this with select people, i don't want it "rubbed" into my face from others, either.
So i'm totally fine with guys having sex toys, as long as they are not prominently displayed. That makes it neither "cool" nor "lame", it's your decision and i really couldn't care less if they do it by hand or with toy-help, just as much as i don't judge other girls for either preference.
b.: guys having vibrators and stuff: only if they seem to have top class cleanliness in their flat, superb hygiene etc...i mean, i dunno where this stuff went before, and now he wants to put that in me? I have to feel really confident with him caring/cleaning and handling toys properly.