What are we?

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I've only ever been in 1 relationship with a guy. It lasted a year and then he broke up with me. We didn't talk for like a month and then he contacted me. That was back in Febuary and we've talked everyday since. I told him back then that I wanted to get back together with him and he's like blah blah (don't remember what he said but we didn't get back together).

Everything has changed within the last few months. Even though we aren't together, it really feels like we are and he talks and acts like we are for ex:

We still have sex with only each other.
We still want to have kids together.
We talk like a couple.
We act like a couple.
I can tell he loves me.
He can tell I love him.

Even with all of this, I still don't know what the hell we are because he won't tell me. A couple of weeks ago he let it slip that he loved me. I know what he said but I wanted to see if he would say it again so I acted like I didn't hear him and I asked him to repeat it and he totally changed the subject. Like I said I have never been in a relationship before and I don't know if this behavior is normal. It it normal? What are we to each other? I am so confused so if any of you can give me insite on what the hell we are and if this is normal it will be a big help. Is this normal? D:

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  • Gardenia
    13 years ago | pl

    Sounds like he loves you but wants no attachments.

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  • valisque
    10 years ago | pl

    sometimes it requires you to give him a little incentive...
    jealousy always does the trick 90% of the time.

    but if he don't want no attachments, then get out... live a little, be sure he's really the best a guy has to offer.

    Once he see's the possibility of loosing you permanently, he'll come around.
    Give him a run for his money. Seriously. starting now, go do it.

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  • Wendell
    11 years ago | pl

    We are Anonymous

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  • __justanother
    13 years ago | pl

    i know the feeling me and my best friend
    me and him never dated but yet
    he treated me and him like a relationship
    we had sex alot
    he would always tell me he would never give up on me and that im truly amazing and im all he has every wanted
    but i gave up on him
    dont give up on this guy even though ur not sure about what yous are just dont give up on what ever yous have cause even though there no name for it at least yous have something there
    trust me once something like that has faded all you will want his to have that something then nothing at all
    and good luck with you and him (:
    from the sounds of it even thought yous aren't official ! he still cares and love you well from what you have typed on here (:

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