@chunkybong
I agree with you Chunky! It is the stuck up snobby people that are to cowardice to truly say what they feel for fear of what other people think of their image. And I guess if I want to beat them....its to beat them in their own game. You know....become the Alpha dog in every way,form, and fashion.
@Ollieo
...actually no I have people that respect me that can tell me exactly what they think. I respect people that are my friends that can do that.If they don't like something about me they will tell me right then and there. Its just that I possibly have been looking up to the wrong caliber of upper class people. And based on your words you seem to be one those caliber of upper class people as well. I pity you.
@ Lovethyselfasone
yeah I have lived through a lot of tough stuff in my life buddy. I had horrible parents raising me.Actually parents that were not fit to really be parents. The little social skills that I have are very helpful. But they are not enough. I am not very strong socially but know behind closed doors I am on of the strongest people you may ever could meet when it came to difficult times in life.
I think you are misreading things. Look, you said in your post that you don't pick up on social cues .. but then you go on to be all belligerent and blame everyone else. That is not a class issue. Its not about being honest. That is just ignorance - yours. Thump your chest and growl all you want. Or just be honest with yourself. Maybe then you will "get ahead."
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@chunkybong
I agree with you Chunky! It is the stuck up snobby people that are to cowardice to truly say what they feel for fear of what other people think of their image. And I guess if I want to beat them....its to beat them in their own game. You know....become the Alpha dog in every way,form, and fashion.
@Ollieo
...actually no I have people that respect me that can tell me exactly what they think. I respect people that are my friends that can do that.If they don't like something about me they will tell me right then and there. Its just that I possibly have been looking up to the wrong caliber of upper class people. And based on your words you seem to be one those caliber of upper class people as well. I pity you.
@ Lovethyselfasone
yeah I have lived through a lot of tough stuff in my life buddy. I had horrible parents raising me.Actually parents that were not fit to really be parents. The little social skills that I have are very helpful. But they are not enough. I am not very strong socially but know behind closed doors I am on of the strongest people you may ever could meet when it came to difficult times in life.
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I think you are misreading things. Look, you said in your post that you don't pick up on social cues .. but then you go on to be all belligerent and blame everyone else. That is not a class issue. Its not about being honest. That is just ignorance - yours. Thump your chest and growl all you want. Or just be honest with yourself. Maybe then you will "get ahead."
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I also get that it is not that easy. I think you know what you need to do. But the pathway of anger ... well that is not it ... right?