The "no apparent reason" in question is usually that her attraction to him has collapsed. This happens for a variety of reasons, and women are less likely to fully understand them than men are, simply because the things men most value in women are easy to see. What a woman values in a man is an interlocking pattern of factors that are often invisible to everyone else around them.
Is that why a lot of sexy and/or sophisticated women date dirt bags?
I used to live in this neighborhood and the manager of it was some blonde who had a "sexy, sophisticated secretary" look. High class looking, probably early 30's, whatever.
One day she mentioned having a lunch date with her husband. I was imagining James Bond in his Sunday best showing up in a black sports car. But no. it was some tall, scraggly, scruffy dorky looking biker type.
Like, why?
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The "no apparent reason" in question is usually that her attraction to him has collapsed. This happens for a variety of reasons, and women are less likely to fully understand them than men are, simply because the things men most value in women are easy to see. What a woman values in a man is an interlocking pattern of factors that are often invisible to everyone else around them.
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Is that why a lot of sexy and/or sophisticated women date dirt bags?
I used to live in this neighborhood and the manager of it was some blonde who had a "sexy, sophisticated secretary" look. High class looking, probably early 30's, whatever.
One day she mentioned having a lunch date with her husband. I was imagining James Bond in his Sunday best showing up in a black sports car. But no. it was some tall, scraggly, scruffy dorky looking biker type.
Like, why?