Eventually you will get bored of having sex with the same person, that takes less than a year, maybe less than a month.
You do not have to uproot your whole lifestyle to appease someone else.
You can spend your money on someone far more deserving than some date. Namely, yourself.
You don't have to dick with birthdays, holidays, anniversaries, or pretend to be concerned when your partner's family is in crisis.
And best of all, there does not come a day when your partner wants to split for no reason at all.
You know it's like you build a relationship or at least try, there is a lot of worry, then one day, the person vanishes, wants to get back with some ex, or my favorite excuse I have heard, they say their friend is in the hospital and they have been worried.
I already been thru that.
If I ever do find another relationship, they would have to understand that I live on my own terms and I am not good at going through the motions of what others expect.
Living on your own terms is great but sometimes a compromise is necessary for the one you love. Example: if she/he hates smacking just eating in the other room sometimes. Or picking up your trash. Its not always that bad
minor things yes but some people want you to overhaul your entire life to suit them.
Get this - years ago I met some bitch on a dating site, she knew right away I was transgender but still wanted to go out. Soon aftet, she suddenly had a problem with how I dressed. Like bitch you knew before we even talked.
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The best way is to avoid them altogether.
Eventually you will get bored of having sex with the same person, that takes less than a year, maybe less than a month.
You do not have to uproot your whole lifestyle to appease someone else.
You can spend your money on someone far more deserving than some date. Namely, yourself.
You don't have to dick with birthdays, holidays, anniversaries, or pretend to be concerned when your partner's family is in crisis.
And best of all, there does not come a day when your partner wants to split for no reason at all.
You know it's like you build a relationship or at least try, there is a lot of worry, then one day, the person vanishes, wants to get back with some ex, or my favorite excuse I have heard, they say their friend is in the hospital and they have been worried.
Ain't got time for NONE of that shit.
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I think your mind is going to change one day when you meet the right one
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I already been thru that.
If I ever do find another relationship, they would have to understand that I live on my own terms and I am not good at going through the motions of what others expect.
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Living on your own terms is great but sometimes a compromise is necessary for the one you love. Example: if she/he hates smacking just eating in the other room sometimes. Or picking up your trash. Its not always that bad
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minor things yes but some people want you to overhaul your entire life to suit them.
Get this - years ago I met some bitch on a dating site, she knew right away I was transgender but still wanted to go out. Soon aftet, she suddenly had a problem with how I dressed. Like bitch you knew before we even talked.
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Yeah thats a bit of a deal breaker