Love is a subjective feeling. If a person believes to love someone, this person IS loving someone, because there's no objective definition of the feeling "love". There is no wrong, incorrect love, - it simply doesn't exist.
That being said: The process of "loving someone" is yours, you have full control over the situation (if not your brain, then at least your heart does), and therefore it is easy.
Whereas the process of "being loved by someone" is out of your control, you don't know, how your actions are going to affect this other person's love towards you. You can't do anything to keep another person from loving you, or to make them love you. Therefore, it is hard to be loved.
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Love is a subjective feeling. If a person believes to love someone, this person IS loving someone, because there's no objective definition of the feeling "love". There is no wrong, incorrect love, - it simply doesn't exist.
That being said: The process of "loving someone" is yours, you have full control over the situation (if not your brain, then at least your heart does), and therefore it is easy.
Whereas the process of "being loved by someone" is out of your control, you don't know, how your actions are going to affect this other person's love towards you. You can't do anything to keep another person from loving you, or to make them love you. Therefore, it is hard to be loved.