Weird situation between me and this girl

So, hey to all,
i've met this girl several weeks ago in a group. I lately had the courage to ask her if she would like to do smth alone. Fortunately she said yes. We met us regularely every week now. I have the feeling that there could be potentially more. But idk, i don't wanna fuck it up. Well, the meetings are going fine. But welcoming and saying goodbye are smh awkward. Noone really knows what to do. I know, i am bad at describing my situation haha. The question is just if I am overinterpreting her interest or if it could become smth good. She's normally not much on her phone, like no social media, no nothing. But since our first meeting we're actually chatting on a daily basis and she's not getting tired of doing stuff with me, or better said talking to me because we're not really doing anything together than spending quality time outside.
Argh fck, maybe you'll get what i mean haha, I'm glad for every attemp you'll start.
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  • Perhaps you should ask her to be your girlfriend? This situation sounds like it could be one of those missed opportunities if you don't act on it soon.

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    • think i really have to do the step, but do you do this so directly? like idk, isn't it like speeding in a traffic-free area haha?

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      • I just take them out for food and then tell them I enjoy hanging out with them and ask them if we can be something more. It usually lead to a "testing the waters" phase and seeing where it goes.

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  • Say the world ends in 2021.
    No warning.
    Take your pick: nukes, comet, etc.
    As you die, 10 seconds to think about shit.
    If you reflect on this situation.
    Are you happy with how you conducted yourself?
    Theres your standard.

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  • Whatever you are doing is working. She likes you. When she wants to take it further she'll let you know.

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    • Really man? Wait for her to ask for sex? Are you new at this? That never works.

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      • it's not really about sex haha, but even though i'm not a kid anymore I really suck at stuff like dating

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        • Not about sex? Lol may as well date a guy then. You must not be 18 yet if you don't want sex. Or you just won't admit that what you want is sex because you don't wanna seem shallow.

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          • haha lol, i am actually over the age of 18 and had some sexual partners, and i'm pretty sure straight. But it's more about the person not the sexual intercourse, it means nothing if i cannot have her like in a relationship.

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            • Idk mate you sound in denial. I guess chase girls without it being about sex, if your into that sorta thing. But just know it makes no sense to me.

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    • so you would advise me to wait till she makes a move?

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  • So how many dates is this by now? If I were you I would ask for sex ASAP, or at least start steering it that direction. If you don't latch on quick she may find someone else. While she has an attraction to you(which it seems like she does) you only have so long to go for it before she loses interest.

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    • Asking for sex asap sounds rather extreme. In this situation, they would still be considered friends. Asking someone who is simply considered a friend to have sex with you is a bit much. He should at least make the relationship official before asking for sex.

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      • Well thats what I would do. I'm not saying thats the best thing for OP to do. Also I will now awknowledge that I am biased. I am a college male who thinks about sex all fucking day and has it frequently with multiple partners. Hardly any relationship has gotten far with me I just don't get very emotionally attached. I'm obsessed with sex and have yet to expirience romance or even monogamy.

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