But it's ok for a girl to do the same for a guy? When a good friend of yours "asks you out" and you say "no", you just cast him out and never see him again?
I don't want to lose her as a friend and I don't think she does either. I don't want leave a friend behind for such a stupid reason, which is why I contacted her again soon after.
In fact in the few days after I posted this, I had a good talk with her and asked her what was going on and she told me she didn't want to lose me as a friend and that she just couldn't handle physical contact because it made her sad/angry.
Now we just hang out as a good pair of friends, nothing more.
What I was looking here by posting this was reinsurance, insight and a nice talk. Not some rubbish like "you're a bastard for still going out with her". Maybe your friends don't mean much for you, but I like to keep the few I have.
Weird reaction I got from a girl-friend.
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But it's ok for a girl to do the same for a guy? When a good friend of yours "asks you out" and you say "no", you just cast him out and never see him again?
I don't want to lose her as a friend and I don't think she does either. I don't want leave a friend behind for such a stupid reason, which is why I contacted her again soon after.
In fact in the few days after I posted this, I had a good talk with her and asked her what was going on and she told me she didn't want to lose me as a friend and that she just couldn't handle physical contact because it made her sad/angry.
Now we just hang out as a good pair of friends, nothing more.
What I was looking here by posting this was reinsurance, insight and a nice talk. Not some rubbish like "you're a bastard for still going out with her". Maybe your friends don't mean much for you, but I like to keep the few I have.