Don't know why you mentioned that, but I'm in no way Christian, nor do I see how religion could affect a friendly relationship between two people of opposite sex.
I never hinted in on that I was interested into having a relationship with her.
In not way am I apologizing because she grew feelings for me. Although I admit physical contact on my part might have participated to her emotional attachment, I am not responsible for it.
I also told her what she meant for me right away saying how good a friend she was and how I didn't want things to go any further than friendship.
I'll just keep her as a friend, guess we'll never be as close as before.
Not my fault, not hers, "c'est la vie".
I was only using my own faith to empathize with the issue. I wasn't accusing you of being anything.
Because you did touch her, you are responsible for it, whether you like it or not. You should at least know that. Like I said, I don't think a woman could take it any other way, unless you were extremely effeminate, or gay, touching has always been seen as a precursor to something more. Even if you saw it differently. I'm glad you're over it.
"unless you were extremely effeminate, or gay, touching has always been seen as a precursor to something more."
So ignorant... or maybe I am? Where are you from?
In france, human contact with friends happens all the time, we kiss each other as greetings instead of shaking our hands, and that's just an example.
Anyway, maybe that's how we fail to understand each other. In france, physical contact with a friend isn't effeminate/gay-exclusive.
Why do you ask for peoples opinions if you're just going to shut them down?
We weren't even talking about that anymore. But if you insist, I had no idea you were from France, but in North America, we don't do that very often, touching is kind of a big deal and it's completely human, cultural or not, to respond emotionally when someone of the opposite sex is touching you unless there your parents or sibling.
Weird reaction I got from a girl-friend.
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Don't know why you mentioned that, but I'm in no way Christian, nor do I see how religion could affect a friendly relationship between two people of opposite sex.
I never hinted in on that I was interested into having a relationship with her.
In not way am I apologizing because she grew feelings for me. Although I admit physical contact on my part might have participated to her emotional attachment, I am not responsible for it.
I also told her what she meant for me right away saying how good a friend she was and how I didn't want things to go any further than friendship.
I'll just keep her as a friend, guess we'll never be as close as before.
Not my fault, not hers, "c'est la vie".
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I was only using my own faith to empathize with the issue. I wasn't accusing you of being anything.
Because you did touch her, you are responsible for it, whether you like it or not. You should at least know that. Like I said, I don't think a woman could take it any other way, unless you were extremely effeminate, or gay, touching has always been seen as a precursor to something more. Even if you saw it differently. I'm glad you're over it.
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"unless you were extremely effeminate, or gay, touching has always been seen as a precursor to something more."
So ignorant... or maybe I am? Where are you from?
In france, human contact with friends happens all the time, we kiss each other as greetings instead of shaking our hands, and that's just an example.
Anyway, maybe that's how we fail to understand each other. In france, physical contact with a friend isn't effeminate/gay-exclusive.
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Why do you ask for peoples opinions if you're just going to shut them down?
We weren't even talking about that anymore. But if you insist, I had no idea you were from France, but in North America, we don't do that very often, touching is kind of a big deal and it's completely human, cultural or not, to respond emotionally when someone of the opposite sex is touching you unless there your parents or sibling.