Wanting to still hang out with a friend who got attached and "asked you out" is giving her hope?
This world's so fucked up. It's like women who want to be treated like men but still want the guys to pay the checks, the restaurant and drive them around.
But it's ok for a girl to do the same for a guy? When a good friend of yours "asks you out" and you say "no", you just cast him out and never see him again?
I don't want to lose her as a friend and I don't think she does either. I don't want leave a friend behind for such a stupid reason, which is why I contacted her again soon after.
In fact in the few days after I posted this, I had a good talk with her and asked her what was going on and she told me she didn't want to lose me as a friend and that she just couldn't handle physical contact because it made her sad/angry.
Now we just hang out as a good pair of friends, nothing more.
What I was looking here by posting this was reinsurance, insight and a nice talk. Not some rubbish like "you're a bastard for still going out with her". Maybe your friends don't mean much for you, but I like to keep the few I have.
Weird reaction I got from a girl-friend.
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If you rejected her, why are you giving her hope? You shouldn't hangout with her in the first place...
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Wanting to still hang out with a friend who got attached and "asked you out" is giving her hope?
This world's so fucked up. It's like women who want to be treated like men but still want the guys to pay the checks, the restaurant and drive them around.
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Yeah. I pay for my own shit.
and yeah, that is called leading her on.
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But it's ok for a girl to do the same for a guy? When a good friend of yours "asks you out" and you say "no", you just cast him out and never see him again?
I don't want to lose her as a friend and I don't think she does either. I don't want leave a friend behind for such a stupid reason, which is why I contacted her again soon after.
In fact in the few days after I posted this, I had a good talk with her and asked her what was going on and she told me she didn't want to lose me as a friend and that she just couldn't handle physical contact because it made her sad/angry.
Now we just hang out as a good pair of friends, nothing more.
What I was looking here by posting this was reinsurance, insight and a nice talk. Not some rubbish like "you're a bastard for still going out with her". Maybe your friends don't mean much for you, but I like to keep the few I have.