We're just friends....?!

I know this girl for a while now, I'm really interested in her and I know she also does in me. But when I tried to kiss her today she refused and said that "we're just friends". Is it possible she just not ready yet?

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  • -sigh- You guyz and this so called "Friend Zone" dude IF she gave you a look like umm a nervos Small and Fast-ish smile i think she would like you more as a CLOSE friend...not a boyfriend BUT....BUT...But........but...if she gave you a look like a smile-ish face and cheeks were red and stuff she probably was Shy and needed an excuse to tell you WHY she didnt kiss you...but dont get all High on what i just said/typed beacuase this is just what i THINK....im not the Love doctor dude...

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  • Brah!!!!she don't want you, no matter what you think ! because if she's single and you single shed be down period your a fucking friend whos cool ! know the boundaries or you'll loose a friend ✌

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  • You may be misinterpreting her feelings for you. Just because you think she is interested doesn't mean it is so. Just ask her. Sometimes people don't want to risk a good friendship even if they are interested because they don't want to risk it. Frienships often last longer than relationships.

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  • I wonder, what were the signals she was sending that you were interpreting as her interest in you?

    Also the context of a kiss can be very important about whether or not a willing kissee will allow the kisser to close the deal. Was the kiss attempted in public? Was the kiss attempted after an argument? in an untidy or dirty environment? etc etc. Not to make you anxious and obssessed with micro-managing every aspect of the process, but I am just trying to make sure that you've considered some of these things when planning a kiss for a love interest.

    The best thing to do, might be to ask her if she feels like there is a chance that your friendship can grow into something more because that is a genuine possibility. Take her answer as the truth and let it determine how you decide to see her and treat her from there on.

    best of luck to you!

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  • Is it possible that she just likes the attention and gets an ego boost from knowing you have feelings for her? Sounds like she's playing mind games to an extent.

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  • friend zone. you can either move on, or end it as her friend to come back and start things romantically. otherwise, a sexual relationship will not be possible.

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  • If you think she's interested in you you should really talk to her about it. Maybe she's just nervous, but try not to do anything too crazy.

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  • She's not interested in you romantically.

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  • Women know within 30 seconds of meeting a guy if he's just friend material! No chance with this babe, but it's true, use it to your advantage, you will gain the interest of other women but be careful, you don't want to end up being every chicks 'friend' just because you're a nice guy!!!!! People will start to think you're gay! Not that there'd anything wrong with that..... But perhaps not the goal here is all!!!!

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  • Friend zone huh. Sorry bro no way to change her mindset. But she can help you pick up on other chicks. Use that to your advantage, other women see you hanging out with her there interest peeks. Tells other women your not an asshole. GL!

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