We fight so much!!

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This is so hard my boyfriend n I fight so much about the stupidest things. When he gets mad its so crazy! He will go to my work yelling and grab on me. He says the most hurtful things and sometimes when he is really mad he says things like "I'm going to kill you or i want to smash your face in". Don't get me wrong when we are not fighting its great and i love being around him he just wants to be young forever and he wants to always be doing something and if i don't have nothing for us to do he gets mad and says I'm boring :( it makes me sad cuz sometimes i just want to chill at home. And now for Oct. 31, he said we should do our own thing. I don't know what to do, I think i am going crazy!! What should i Do Please help....

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Here's the picture: This is an unhealthy relationship with a volatile, controlling, immature, and at this point, verbally abusive man who pushes you around, humiliates you & threatens you with physical violence.

    I say at this point because his abuse could get worse.

    Of course this is crazy. Here's what to do: get out. Move on. Find someone normal.

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    • tandyshark
      13 years ago | pl

      break up with him, you don't deserve to be treated like that, NO ONE DOES! What would he do if you had kids? what kind of example would you be showing your children if you stay with him. That it is OK to be treated less than human? Break up with him for yourself, your friends, and your future children. because if you don't you will lose everything, including yourself pride. take care

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  • kris.lilley
    13 years ago | pl

    Run!!!

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  • Karategurl
    13 years ago | pl

    Break up with him. He sounds creepy.

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  • Lizbit
    13 years ago | pl

    This (for lack of a better term) guy is abusing you mentally and emotionally. And he sounds like he's less than a hop, skip and a jump from PHYSICALLY hurting you!!! Trust me sweetie this is not healthy for you! Please get a way from him while you still can! The men who are truely worth crying over will never make you cry (unless they are tears of joy)!

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  • n2645t
    13 years ago | pl

    Talk about it. try to calm him down each time he says anything abusing and hurts your feelings! After all i dont think you are together by now! Or if you are you have sorted out your problems! No one deserves to be treated that way!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    do what all females do get a restraining order have him arrested then two months later date him again and do the whole thing over and over again till he kills you then commits suicide.

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    • LoveLVR
      13 years ago | pl

      Thats not funny thats scary... but i get what you are saying....

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  • Sophynya
    13 years ago | pl

    Wow babe, love, darling, sweetheart, and all those lovely things listen. I dont know how old you are but I'm 22 and a mama boy *cough* please dont laugh. I was raised to love women and I do very much so that I beat down my best friend since 8 years cause he started that same shit. No no no no no WTF I'm tryin to make this lite for you and say it in a way for you to make your own choice which it seems your on your way to going since you asking if you should bounce from this realationship. Im pissed for you I know women our strong hell my ma is the best example for that she could nock any man out, but she still a women and you love so much that sometimes like now you get hurt cause of it. I was raised with old way thinking women you protect if you could bench 250lbs I'd still try to be the hero not cause i want but cause its how iI react when I see shit like that. So what dose this all mean....that you are not in a relationship thats good for you. do your own thing on the 31st is not cool. Kill smash lol, miss as i said my ma's tough but she love the fool that she with now i dont like him cause he dose the same shit your mans doin and here wats my ma says "hes good, hes changing, he will change" and my god my fav " i love him... NO NO NO NO NO NO I love fighting(fist fights man to man so theres no miss uderstanding) but I hate it cause it becomes fun for me and so i dont fight wat i mean is just cause you love something dont mean you should do it or stick around if it causes you or the ppl around you pain 20 days out of the month so think whats best for you not him dont talk it over with him if you've done that time and again think whats best for you cause if your young love then go and be young be happy and be happy with someone thats on the same length as you good luck and LATER DAYZ!!

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