Was this mean enough to hurt someone who truly wronged me?

Maybe. This is my only dalliance with revenge and I agree about too much suffering in the world, but I'm not going to cry over any suffering I caused him. I can't really keep score you are correct, but I feel justice and at this point it's working for me. I don't plan to make a habit out of revenge and I will take what I learned from this to help me see signs better in future relationships. It's done can't talk me out of it now lol. You seem to be trying to do that :P I was asking if I was mean enough not how to go back in time :D... but no this type of behavior won't become a habit. It's not in my nature. That's why I even had the urge to check in did I do the revenge "right."