It's already done and I feel a lot better. No other contact or revenge needed. I didn't like it ending on his terms. I'm not the better person. Oh well! My question was about something I already did. Can't take it away. I just hope I did a good enough job kicking him while he was down. However, you're right he's always going to be dissatisfied! It took very little effort and I feel great!
The thing is, you can never hurt him as much as he hurts himself, he is the reason why he has no friends.
Seeking revenge and having that "an eye for an eye" mentality will put you on the path to becoming a bitter old lady with a history of scumbag boyfriends. Now that you got that shit out your system, just think about that relationship and notice the red flags you've missed. Everyone asshole has those telltale signs, even the most charming scumbags have them, just learn to look out for them and create boundaries for yourself. Creating a better life for yourself is how you truly win, not that nonsense you did there.
Yes, moving on and learning is good thanks! Listening to myself about signs also good!! This is the only time I've ever seeked revenge, so I doubt it will become a habit
Was this mean enough to hurt someone who truly wronged me?
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It's already done and I feel a lot better. No other contact or revenge needed. I didn't like it ending on his terms. I'm not the better person. Oh well! My question was about something I already did. Can't take it away. I just hope I did a good enough job kicking him while he was down. However, you're right he's always going to be dissatisfied! It took very little effort and I feel great!
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The thing is, you can never hurt him as much as he hurts himself, he is the reason why he has no friends.
Seeking revenge and having that "an eye for an eye" mentality will put you on the path to becoming a bitter old lady with a history of scumbag boyfriends. Now that you got that shit out your system, just think about that relationship and notice the red flags you've missed. Everyone asshole has those telltale signs, even the most charming scumbags have them, just learn to look out for them and create boundaries for yourself. Creating a better life for yourself is how you truly win, not that nonsense you did there.
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Yes, moving on and learning is good thanks! Listening to myself about signs also good!! This is the only time I've ever seeked revenge, so I doubt it will become a habit