Was this fate? Or coincidence?

'Fate' is what you make it.

What you need is more confidence.

Also, please discontinue using or viewing young females as "girls". This is sometimes offensive. A 'girl', is a pre-pubescent person of either sex.
A 'woman', must have previously had vaginal sexual intercourse (at least on three separate occasions, in my own opinion).

Try: You are a beautiful person, and I'd like to know you better (or similar to this [find your own words, try to be unique].