Was it my fault

When i was 14 i had a friend her family came to my house. As we were kid so we were playing together. Suddenly she took me in another room and started kissing on my lips. I didn't know what to do at that moment. Now she is married. What should i do

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  • Boojum

    🙄 Seriously?

    Maybe I've got this completely wrong since you didn't bother to mention the highly relevant fact of how old she was when this happened. But from what you say, I assume you were both either 14 years old or close to that.

    If so, then you're turning one piffling little incident between a couple of kids into this huge, life-altering event of gigantic significance. I don't know. Maybe you're just one of those people who's desperate to find _something_ that will let you jump on the MeToo bandwagon so you can proudly say you stand in solidarity with genuine victims who had genuinely horrible things done to them by genuinely nasty people.

    If you seriously believe this one incident has completely screwed up your life, then you should speak to a professional about what exactly has been going on in your head and how you can get past it.

    Otherwise, you should just get the fuck over yourself. You were kids. Kids do stupid, silly stuff while they're trying to figure out life and themselves. All she did was kiss you. Presumably, the event lasted all of a couple of minutes at most. The only question you should really be asking yourself is why exactly this insignificant incident is something you still worry about so much that you felt the need to ask a random bunch of internet people what you should do about it.

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  • kikilizzo

    What to do??? You provide zero context, why should you even do anything at all especially if she's married??? You were kids dude move on.
    And why would it be your fault that she kissed you? And it was just a random kiss? I don't really get what the thing is here.

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    Play dead

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  • Ihidabody

    I'm confused.

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  • jethro

    Move to another state and become a hermit.

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  • Curiouskitten444

    Huh?

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  • RoseIsabella

    There's nothing to do, man, just let it be!

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  • Sanara

    If you didn't ask for it, of course it wasn't your fault

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  • OSCARUK

    There are all kinds of issues going on here but if at the timeit was consensual then let it lie, no good can come from raking over old dirt... It was just a kiss

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  • randypete

    get over it snow flake

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  • YE

    Weep for yourself man.

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  • MrToxic

    Some questions first:
    -You were 14, how old were they?
    -Were you afraid?
    -Did they tell you not to tell anyone?
    -how long ago was this/how old are you and she now?

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  • Tinybird

    that's fucking gross

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