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I use to be in a relationship where he got off on my pain. I didn't particularly like it, but when I see the marks of other women I think it's extremely beautiful. Is it weird that I want to be a masochist, but I feel like I can't?
You want to be a masochist, but deprive yourself of that opportunity.
You deny yourself the thing that you want.
Isn't that a little, I don't know, masochistic?
I don't purposely deprive myself of it. My sadistic ex was into flogging... I was mixed emotions. I would scream, cry, and beg him to stop, but when I saw the marks I was happy. Everytime he would take the flogger out I would panic and feel fearful. I wish I could enjoy it.
You just like seeing marks and don't like the pain. Get a Hanna tattoo or make them with make up. Its a way to give the appearance without all the pain.
I actually admire their ability to take the pain so it wouldn't be the same for me, but that is a good idea. Thank you.
Well that is like saying "I wish I was gay". Some people like me are just born with that type of streak. Some people develop such things later because of bad expireinces. Just be who you and like who you are. You are not going to enjoy it and some people just don't.
Lol sorry guys, but maybe this was the wrong site to post this lol I love getting spanked with a belt till I can't sit down, tied to the bed helpless, chocked until I see yellow. I have been collared and humiliated, owned and loved it. I would never jeopardize myself with strangers. These are people I've known for years and have spoken to their play partners. Life long partners that won't kill me but give me my high of submitting. I love the marks on those women and wish I could carry those badges of honor myself and maybe one day I'll get there. Thank you for your opinions :)
I won't judge someone for their genuine interests I guess. Still, this kind of stuff is a bit out of my realm and comfort zone. I could never bring myself to choke someone until they started to fade out, even if they begged for it. Nor would I ever feel comfortable and let someone abuse me. I am not a complete prude but I am not a sadist or a masochist either, so this stuff sounds extreme to someone with my moderate tastes.
And that's understandable. I wouldn't force anyone to be the way I am. It's all about interest. You can't make someone be that way. Now I do have my limits. All of that is strictly bedroom for me. Outside the room is something I probably wouldn't tolerate lol I'm quite strange
Thats right, this is the wrong site, You need 1-800-Mental-Case! Yeah keep that shit up, you'll get there alright. Right into your grave. And nobody wants women with marks and scars on them. Not for a long term relationship, anyway. Just to use them and throw them in the garbage like trash. Stop kidding yourself. And im not 100% sure your telling the truth. I think your just trying to get attention. Grow up!
Lol I'm not looking for attention it's an honest question but thanks for your opinion. There are actually thousands of people in my city that are into what I like. It's called BDSM and what I like is a lot less out there than a lot of people I know. I don't show marks, that's not appropriate. I already said it's strictly bedroom. Research it, you'd be surprised how far some people go and even more surprised how many people near you are into far more serious stuff than I am.
No thanks, Why would I waste my precious time, researching, sexual deviants like you. Sorry, I got better things to do. And if there's any more like you,(near me) I hope they go back to the pit they came from. Maybe it's time for you to meet some new people, The ones your with, have influenced you, because your either mentally weak or very uneducated. So you try compensate for it with this stupid "I like to be choked shit". People like you just make this world more vile. I sure you'll get your wish, and someone will strangle you and you'll die. Marks on your face how stunning! Good! one less Nutjob.
You don't listen much do you? Lol I don't show marks and I'm with someone I trust. In situations Like this trusting someone is important (obviously). I've always liked the feeling of being retained since my early teens. I was happy to find others like me. It's clear that you are just a very judgmental person. It's not like I'm doing this to you lol you probably work with people like me and will never know. They look like normal people, never showing anything of their personal lives. Only my close friends know about me. I work, have a family, go to church and all just like anyone else and no one knows my personal life. I don't walk around with a sign telling all my business or have tattoos all over me. You'd be very surprised
I listen just fine, And what's wrong with tattoos. I got six of them and they're really nice looking. You go to Church! What a fucking hypocrite. Listen, I don't care what u do. And as for my work, I don't, my Husband supports me. Maybe if you stop this shit. You could have a decent husband who really loves you. But not if you keep this ridiculous S&M Bullshit up. You'll be sorry later in life. And your telling your business on here. Duh! You wanna be treated bad. Then go ahead. I don't get it. Listen little girl your you. And I am me. And I am an advocate. for animal rights. And will not tolerate them being abused! That is why I cannot stand you. The poor animals are innocent creatures. And people like you, are the ones hurting them! Marks! what are you in a fucking tribe. And nothing suprises me. All I know is that you should post crazy shit on some other website. This site is for people who need help. Not some loon who likes to be choked/flogged.
Why don't you walk around with a sign? Tell them the truth! Then You'll see, It's not only I who condemns, your deviant sexual behavior. See what they say, if you got the guts. But I don't think u do. Your just a sad, sicko. Scared to face the truth.
You sound more like a sadist thinking the marks on other women are beautiful.
No you can't become a masochist as far as I know, it's hard wired into me and I can't get rid of it. And I've known i like pain since as far back as I can remember
Why would you want to? It's weird when someone punches you and you burst out laughing, you're lucky you're normal but I am forced to embrace it and I stranglely love it
It is normal to want to be a masochist, but I can't understand why you feel like you cannot. I don't want to be one, but if I did, I would hope I would give myself permission.
Sounds like YOU HAVE masochistic tendencies. Why don't you go get them fulfilled? You could go to a dungeon and book your a dominatrix.
It's normal to want to please your partner in a way that also pleases yourself. It's normal to want your sexuality not to contradict itself, because if it does so it's hard to know what you want.
Exactly! Mentally I think that's what I want, but physically I can't yet and it drives me crazy having my own body give me mixed signals.
Now your trying to get your brother to defend you. Your pathetic. You can't even fight your own battle. You would never make a good Queen. Your too weak and Fucked up in the head. I'll take you all on! C'mon! and Bring it, Bitch! u and your brother.
You ask what's wrong with me when I'm willing to let it go and let you have your opinion. There are so many things I could call you just with the way you're acting now, but I won't because I'm not that type of person. You on the other hand are acting like we have you backed into a corner with weapons pointed at you when a simple opinion is given. I don't know this person, although I appreciate their defense, and yet here you are attacking them because they stood up for someone you're putting down. Can't you just let go and stop? Let others have their opinions and you have yours? Or do you really have to fight a pointless battle online with every person that states their opinion? No malace intended just simple questions.
Mate, look up the definition of a masochist then come back to this page please
Marks on women are ugly, don't fool yourself, You better get some Mederma, and stop acting ridiculous. Act like a lady. Then You'll find someone who'll treat you the way the Queen herself, is treated. And I also suggest you see a Psychiatrist!
Why do marks on women seem ugly to you? They're a sign of strength. What if they're self harm marks? Those can be beautiful if you think that she's fought the greatest war and is winning by still living. And what about marks on men?
"Act like a lady." Well, as a female who acts nothing like one I can tell you that this isn't necessary. What are you living in, the 1800's? I have a sexual partner who treats me just the way I want to be and she loves me for who I am.
"See a Psychiatrist!" Nah, there'd be no point. Masochism isn't a mental illness or something that can be cured. It's a need. If you've developed it, if it wears off then that's the only way to get rid of it.
I don't want to be treated like a queen. The complete opposite actually :)
Why? I just can't belive any woman would put up with that shit and like it? And the reason you feel like u can't is because your subconscious is perhaps trying to tell you something. And if that's truly the case, why don't you go live in some foreign country. And those barbaric vile men will tear you apart. I Then you'll be sorry. And it will be too late. Jesus, and I thought I had problems. You win darling. By far. Get some Help!
You say this now until someone comes along and takes the abuse too far and seriously hurts you bad.