Want to suck cock for first time but nervous.

49 yo married white male. Have fantasized for years about submitting to and sucking off a cock, even multiple cocks, but have never acted on it. Now, my fantasies are stronger than ever and I fantasize about sucking cock every day. Thinking about sucking on a thick, hung cock or a big black one turns me on so much I have to jerk off. I've put up some ads on Cragslist and had some nice offerings, one in particular was a perfect 8 inch black cock who only wanted a white guy for sucking, but I get nervous and back out.

I've read a lot of posts where guys went through similar experiences before sucking their first cock but once they sucked they loved it and wished they had done it sooner.

Can any one relate and offer up advice?

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  • 30 years ago When I told my buddy, we had both just got out of military in San Diego. We had cash and a weekend coming so off to the liquor store and another stop or two. Anyway after a few good drinks and a couple of good lines, I was ready and about horny enough to fuck the screen door. But I thought about it because I was curious also. After a few minutes and rattling things around in my head and organized, I just came right out and told him. I just said "C, I really want to feel your cock in my mouth and I really want to suck your cock. We went and found some things in my then gfs dresser to wear. We put them on,went to living room, and then I reached for his coc k and felt it in my hand it was different in a really good way. So about 2-3 minutes later I pulled his cock out and aimed it for my mouth. The feeling of it sliding in and out of my mouth and my tongue all over his cock, I remember slurping a little, I was so worked up and excited I almost fun in the pantyhose I was wearing. We kept it up about 6 weeks, so if one of us wanted to duck the others cock we could just walk over, open his jeans, pull cock out and start in. I really loved the feeling of his cock in and out of my mouth. I think the majority of guys that do try sucking a cock, I think most would enjoy it.

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  • I say go for it , but if your wife is also in her late forties, better to keep it to yourself

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  • I can, and I agree w the majority

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  • Ask your wife what she thinks of all of this.

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    • If you're in a marriage this is the best place to start. I would not recommend going off and finding some sexual pleasure somewhere else without talking to her about it first, she might be supportive but if she's not you need to be prepared for that as well.

      That being said - Sexual curiosity is super normal! Lots of people want to do things or at the very least SEE things they don't know about.

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