Want more sex than him

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating almost 2 years. We have a babyboy together. Here lately it seems like I want to have sex more than my boyfriend,he rather play xbox than have sex. When I ask him for it he sometimes complains and tells me I'm acting like a baby,which really pisses me off! But I don't think it's normal for a girl to want sex more than a guy! And for him to pick xbox over sex and I do please him,he always cums and it's been before I had my baby since I've came! And when we get fines having sex and I didn't cum usually I ask him to rub my pussy and stuff and he's like well I'm not in the mood anymore,he's the first guy I've had sex with so idek how guys are suppose to act about this stuff but I know I'm not liking this and I'm getting really ticked off and his penis isn't even big!! Like what the fuck?!?!?!?

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    Well, you picked him. Although let's be honest...The new Batman game came out, so I understand. Nothing comes before Xbox! Nothing! Lol.

    But in all seriousness, we get this quite a few times on here, infact I think we hear more about girls having their partners not interested in sex as much as them than we do the reverse. Some guys just get more joy out of others things in life other than sex, which is a good thing for guys but not so much for girls due to situations like this.

    I'd suggest what Fish did. Buy toys. I'd say leave him but you two just had a kid, so that makes it a bit more iffy.

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    • Ashpieveil
      8 years ago

      I keep telling him how important sex is,and both need to be satisfied sexually if not then I won't stay with him,he's the first guy that I had sex with so he should want to satisfy me and show me great sex but lately it has been different!

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      • (s)aint
        8 years ago

        He should make it a priority to get you off!
        You do not have to settle for a partner that does not care about that.
        My Boyfriend knows that he can;
        A) Play video-games and watch how upset I get for not getting sex.
        B) FUck my brains out and THEN play video-games. Both win.

        How often would you like to fuck by the way?

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        • Ashpieveil
          8 years ago

          I love to fuck everyday as much as possible! And my bf doesn't seem to care how upset I get sometimes so I just watch porn in front of him and he gets mad! But idc!

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          • (s)aint
            8 years ago

            Then you are as crazy as I am :P Just wanted to see how often you wanted it and was not getting it.
            How often does he give you attention?

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            • Ashpieveil
              8 years ago

              Yess and well basically when I ask for attention he sometime gives it to me and sometimes not because he's busy with something else

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    • Ashpieveil
      8 years ago

      Yes we just had a baby,and after the baby when I couldn't have sex,I gave him BJs and we had anal sex,so he should atleast do it with me when I ask to!

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    It's normal for you to want sex more than he does, even though it's hardly an ideal situation for you. Certainly it's more common for women to not be interested in sex for a while after giving birth, but either is normal. I think the fact that he's calling you a baby when you want sex may be significant: some men turn off when they're no longer the centre of attention after a baby arrives.

    Surely you knew the size of his penis before this change in his behavior occurred? Does he acknowledge he's changed, assuming you've talked to him about how you feel and not when he's on xbox or refusing to have sex?

    The sex toys suggested by Fish & ItDuz will give you orgasms but my guess is it's also some affection you're wanting and sorry, there's no way to force him to give you that if he doesn't want to any more. Knowing you're having orgasms without him might get him interested again - I hope so for your sake

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    Make him get you off first.

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  • Philipp
    8 years ago

    I would react differently...

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    • Ashpieveil
      8 years ago

      Oh really??

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  • cumforfunn
    8 years ago

    buy yourself a vibrating cock?

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  • Ashpieveil
    8 years ago

    I think we should come before Xbox,I even turn it off and try to have sex sometime it works but sometimes it doesn't so idek what to do! It's weird to me that I want sex more than him,and I have sex with him whenever he wants to but yet he can't do the same thing for me?!

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    • chewy
      8 years ago

      Are you sexy?

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      • Ashpieveil
        8 years ago

        Yes I have a nice ass and 40 C boobs! And a nice vagina

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        • chewy
          8 years ago

          That's hot! Come over my house and show me what you got ;)

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          • Ashpieveil
            8 years ago

            Yeah except I still have a bf!(:

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        • CDmale4fem
          8 years ago

          Oh yea, I LOVE nice vaginas.

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        • CDmale4fem
          8 years ago

          Do you realize that you and I could borrow bras from each other ? Yea I have and I wear them at home in private or under my clothes when its not 100° for the last week or so. Oh and yes Im a crossdresser. Would that prevent you from emailing me your address if you and bf broke up ?

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          • Ashpieveil
            8 years ago

            I'm
            Not dating someone like that,just not my style!! Sorry even if me
            And him did break up

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            • CDmale4fem
              8 years ago

              Damn you words cut like a knife, and crush my feelers too. You say that almost like that slice of pie in society should be put down like a horse with a broken leg. We enjoy being loved, we enjoy loving, we have tender hearts, calloused hearts, broken hearts, just like the rest of society. If its something you dont understand, dont write it off just because you dont see how someone like so n so could like something like such and such. It takes all kinds to make the world go round.

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  • Fish1973m
    8 years ago

    I think you need to get some sex toys and give your pussy a good work over and leave him to his Xbox if he can't satisfy you. :)

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  • agarwal1931998
    8 years ago

    talk to him. if he doesnt react. cry before him. and if he doesnt look for it, start ignoring him for sometime until.he finds u important but dont go beyond and dont break his trust

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  • scullyfbi
    8 years ago

    If you two don't figure this out it will break you up.
    X-Box over sex? Isn't most time on xbox because the player can't find a partner for sex?

    Frankly it goes deeper between you two. Like, most guys would quit the x-box just to carry in the groceries if she went shopping. I think your problem is not really about sex, it is about selfishness-- His selfishness.
    Your last resort before giving up is probably to actually plan "dates" that include sex. If he is still being rejecting it is a message you are not important to him, regardless of what he says.
    All this is assuming you two are not like 65 or older.

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    • Ashpieveil
      8 years ago

      We'll thank you for the insight and yes I think we being selfish! Like I said I always give him sex when he wants! And he should choose Xbox over it! That's no excuse you can always play later!! So I think I'm gunna try to start denying him sex when he wants to have sex or make him wait a few days.

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      • Ashpieveil
        8 years ago

        Sorry about the typos

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  • Ashpieveil
    8 years ago

    We gad sex last night and he actually ate me out and fingered me afterwards !

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  • BBCNastyGirl
    8 years ago

    Sweetheart, put out an ad on Craigslist and get some action outside your marriage. Don't tell him, just do it. You need a well hung male with stamina and you ain't gonna get that form xbox boy.

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    • Ashpieveil
      8 years ago

      No I'm not a cheater! So id break up with him first! But Iove him so it sucks right now I'm staying with him! And he's good at eating me out when he does...

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  • D.O.C
    8 years ago

    boo just destroy his xbox ,am telling you ,he will be mad at you but he will give you the attention you want.

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    • Ashpieveil
      8 years ago

      Yess!!(:

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  • CDmale4fem
    8 years ago

    You wanting more sex ? You can email me your address.

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    • Ashpieveil
      8 years ago

      Haha maybe If we break up(; but until then,no thanks

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  • Mr-Myrtos
    8 years ago

    Talk and try to understand what happen. With discussions you'll never reach a conclusion.

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    • Ashpieveil
      8 years ago

      When I talk to him about it he thinks I'm begging but it's not my fault that I don't feel satisfied when we are done having sex and I want him to help me get off!!

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  • thefuckup
    8 years ago

    Get a dildo

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    • Ashpieveil
      8 years ago

      I already picked one out,it's the james deen one!! James deen has a nice big dick!

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      • CDmale4fem
        8 years ago

        So do I, or so I have been told... :)

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        • Ashpieveil
          8 years ago

          Hahaha okkk(;

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      • thefuckup
        8 years ago

        Yes,he does.

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        • Ashpieveil
          8 years ago

          For real (;

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