Wanna talk to someone i haven't seen for years but scared of being creepy

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I'm lonely. I don't have any close friends and I just moved back with my parents after living away for a year doing a volunteer job, and I'm still looking for a job and classes.

I haven't talked to anyone from high school since graduation 3 years ago, though I can find them on Facebook. But I don't use it at all.

I need to talk to someone and learn to socialize. Problem, I really don't want to scare off the closest thing I have to a friend by accidentally acting creepy. I've never really done much with anyone, and I really need to fix that. But I don't know what to do at all...

Is it acceptable to just say "hey, I just moved back, do you think we could meet up sometime to catch up?" Does that sound OK?

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  • satanniggasandpopsicle
    6 years ago

    Yea sounds fine

    Its good your trying to socialize more. Dont worry about it. Get in there and you'll be fine

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  • mia500
    6 years ago

    I've wanted to hook up with people after high school too. since you know them its not creepy,, go for it!

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  • JonathanOo
    6 years ago

    Many people go through this especially after high school and college. You'll have to try different ways to make friends

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    • Knightmare
      6 years ago

      What would you have in mind? I have no ideas and this scares me

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      • JonathanOo
        6 years ago

        Honestly unless you join a sports team or make it known your are back in the area I don't know. Unfortunately I wasn't successful in meeting back up with people once I moved. Others I know were though

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  • S12207
    6 years ago

    Yes it's perfectly normal to reach out and it's not creepy. If they say no and you keep asking then that's a bit creepy. Go for it!

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