Don´t waste your time, energy, hopes and nerves waiting for her. Saying "I like you but I do not want to have a relationship." is just a polite way to say "I do not want you / a relationship with you." Instead, focus your effort on looking for someone who wants to have a relationship with you.
Imagine someone offered you a meal which you would not like to eat. What would you say: "Oh, I do not want THIS meal you offer me. It smells bad and looks horrible" or "Thanks, it looks nice but I am really not hungry"?
Please, do not take it as an offence (comparing you to a meal:), I just tried to illustrate the principle that might be behind her words.
Waiting for her.
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Don´t waste your time, energy, hopes and nerves waiting for her. Saying "I like you but I do not want to have a relationship." is just a polite way to say "I do not want you / a relationship with you." Instead, focus your effort on looking for someone who wants to have a relationship with you.
Imagine someone offered you a meal which you would not like to eat. What would you say: "Oh, I do not want THIS meal you offer me. It smells bad and looks horrible" or "Thanks, it looks nice but I am really not hungry"?
Please, do not take it as an offence (comparing you to a meal:), I just tried to illustrate the principle that might be behind her words.