Virginity, boyfriend and sex...

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I recently (4 months ago) lost my virginity to my boyfriend. We have been dating for 16 months now. He is amazing and I love him to bits. But we are both going through rough patches in out lives and I sometimes get worried we will brake up.. But I really don't want this because we have become so close and I want him in my life forever. I also don't want to break up with him because I lost my virginity to him... Is that normal? I also love sex and I feel as if it is becoming addictive in a way.. Is that also normal?

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  • lovemyboyll
    12 years ago | pl

    Ok! Thank you so much on the advice. I think I need to think some things through :)

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  • Marinar4Sauce
    12 years ago | pl

    My ex gf was a virgin when we got together, and she has told me and her friends that she felt addicted to it after a while, like she needed it sometimes.

    Wanting to be with the person you lost your virginity to is fine, but you need more than just one reason, imo.

    Tell him you think the two of you should take a break to think about your relationship, and after a week get back together and tell one another the reasons you are together, as well as some things you dislike about the relationship.

    You'll either find a reason to move past him, or find the reasons the two of you work, and become closer. Either way - stop worrying!

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago | pl

    All of these things are normal! All couples go threw rough patches at different times, but it is how you support each other threw these difficult moments that makes all the difference! Enjoy you time together, how ever long it may be, and stop worrying so much.

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago | pl

    Just because you lost your virginity to him shouldn't change anything towards wanting to be with him in my opinion. There can be many others and there is nothing wrong with that.

    But then, if you love him, why would you break up with him. Everybody goes through ruff patches. It's the couples that get through it that are truly in love. There is a point where it's time to break up but no idea where you are so...

    As for sex being addictive, it is so to many people.

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