You dont have to be afraid to leave. You got your parents who love you and will support your decision. You got your baby too and don't let her grow up in an abusive treatment. That's the best thing you can do for your baby if not for yourself.
That's a reasonable concern, but it's some way down the line. Don't let that worry become an excuse for doing nothing.
I assume you live in a country where fathers aren't considered the legal owners of their children. If you live in a civilised place, you're capable of caring for your baby well and you have the resources to provide for her physical needs, then custody shouldn't be a huge problem.
When your daughter is older, her father might decide that he wants to see more of her, so there could be disputes about visitation rights and maybe even joint-custody, but those things are a bridge to be crossed when you get to them.
Very complicated - please help :(
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You dont have to be afraid to leave. You got your parents who love you and will support your decision. You got your baby too and don't let her grow up in an abusive treatment. That's the best thing you can do for your baby if not for yourself.
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Thank you for that . I think I’m
More afraid of the custody battle than anything ?
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That's a reasonable concern, but it's some way down the line. Don't let that worry become an excuse for doing nothing.
I assume you live in a country where fathers aren't considered the legal owners of their children. If you live in a civilised place, you're capable of caring for your baby well and you have the resources to provide for her physical needs, then custody shouldn't be a huge problem.
When your daughter is older, her father might decide that he wants to see more of her, so there could be disputes about visitation rights and maybe even joint-custody, but those things are a bridge to be crossed when you get to them.