Cruelty to you and your kitten as you described is very serious and a red flag that he has psychological issuses. He is not your problem and has been nothing but controlling and manipulative of you. You deserve someone who respects you as an equal and does not emotionally and physically abuse you. I'm not saying he does not have some qualities that you were first attracted to, BUT the negative far outweighs the positive (going by your extensive info you have supplied). Don't try to change him or be his savior, stand firm and think of yourself and your cats' ongoing welfare. It's natural to doubt you decision, but you must stand strong on this one. It will get easier with time and you owe it to yourself to be free of his toxic energy. No relationship is perfect but cutting off your air supply (life force) is a dire first warning, you may not get a second. Move on and don't look back, take care and good luck.
Zane, thank you for this. I had checked his twitter for that vacation day that he had been working all day, and as it turns out he was at 'trebuchet day' on a football field watching other people launch trebuchets. As soon as I write this, just have to laugh because it is like something out of Napoleon Dynamite. It just sucks Zane when you recognize you were a trophy more being shown off, then when I had issues with his friend who kept making advances on me and had literally two girlfriends, my boyfriend no longer could brag about how great I am and started disparaging me to myself and others, and defending his friends (one friend that managed a stripclub got mad that I didn't like the dude that has two gf's, lol) over me. So, without the bravado of being with me in regards to his friends, I became nothing. He humiliated me on Twitter too in front of my 10,000++ followers. He told people I obtained a certification he never obtained to hurt his self regard and that I didn't respect him. I actually had offered to pay the thousands of dollars for him to obtain that certifcation, it's just sounds so dumb now that I am out of the relationship. I got off of Twitter due to it, and had been just fine before meeting him on there. Weird, I am tops in career and am very beautiful. All of it just sucks, to realize you were used, and even with all your success and beauty, you can get trampled and trophied, and your kitten too, who is also powerful and beautiful (lol). Thank you Zane. Your comment? This really deeply helped me.
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Cruelty to you and your kitten as you described is very serious and a red flag that he has psychological issuses. He is not your problem and has been nothing but controlling and manipulative of you. You deserve someone who respects you as an equal and does not emotionally and physically abuse you. I'm not saying he does not have some qualities that you were first attracted to, BUT the negative far outweighs the positive (going by your extensive info you have supplied). Don't try to change him or be his savior, stand firm and think of yourself and your cats' ongoing welfare. It's natural to doubt you decision, but you must stand strong on this one. It will get easier with time and you owe it to yourself to be free of his toxic energy. No relationship is perfect but cutting off your air supply (life force) is a dire first warning, you may not get a second. Move on and don't look back, take care and good luck.
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Zane, thank you for this. I had checked his twitter for that vacation day that he had been working all day, and as it turns out he was at 'trebuchet day' on a football field watching other people launch trebuchets. As soon as I write this, just have to laugh because it is like something out of Napoleon Dynamite. It just sucks Zane when you recognize you were a trophy more being shown off, then when I had issues with his friend who kept making advances on me and had literally two girlfriends, my boyfriend no longer could brag about how great I am and started disparaging me to myself and others, and defending his friends (one friend that managed a stripclub got mad that I didn't like the dude that has two gf's, lol) over me. So, without the bravado of being with me in regards to his friends, I became nothing. He humiliated me on Twitter too in front of my 10,000++ followers. He told people I obtained a certification he never obtained to hurt his self regard and that I didn't respect him. I actually had offered to pay the thousands of dollars for him to obtain that certifcation, it's just sounds so dumb now that I am out of the relationship. I got off of Twitter due to it, and had been just fine before meeting him on there. Weird, I am tops in career and am very beautiful. All of it just sucks, to realize you were used, and even with all your success and beauty, you can get trampled and trophied, and your kitten too, who is also powerful and beautiful (lol). Thank you Zane. Your comment? This really deeply helped me.