Update on bf angry b/c i beat him at wrestling
Only submitting this here in new category b/c for some reason when I go to "reply" to messages it keeps telling me to log in even tho' i already have! Grrr...anyone else having this problem?
anyway, for those who were following the drama, my BF insisted on a rematch, saying he didn't try hard the first time, he was going easy on me b/c i'm a girl, etc., and I finally gave in and said "fine, but you need to know I'm not going to go easy on you, and YOU'RE the one at a disadvantage b/c I know Judo and you don't...and you need to be more mature about it if you lose again."
So: He agreed and we wrestled again at my apt. b/c I have a mat there I use to practice my rolls and stuff...and it was much like the first time...he tried to overpower me but i kept moving and ducking and tripping him to the floor to get him tired, and finally after letting him get in close and flipping him across my hip he landed really hard and was totally out of breath so I said "OK, lets just stop b4 someone gets hurt", and he said he just needed a minute to catch his breath, and I said "fine, I'll fix my hair (b/c my ponytail was coming loose and my hair is long and was getting in my eyes), and while I'm doing that he attacked me from behind while I had my back turned and threw me down and tried to pin me!
So as youmight guess I was really pissed, so I got behind him on the mat and got hold of his arm at the elbow and put him into a "gamate", which is a joint lock, and grabbed his wrist and started bending it back--which can be realy painful--and I said "Do you give up?" over and over until he said "Yes, i give up..stop!" and I let him go.
Then i tried to make him apologize for attacking me from behind (while i was doing him a favor letting him catch his breath) but he refused and then accused ME of cheating b/c we "agreed to a wrestling match, not Judo" so b/c I didn't technically "pin" him, he wouldn't agree I won.
So i basically said 'just get out--I'm thru w/you', and he said 'no way', and I said I can either call the cops and have them kick you out or I can kick your ass myself and do it that way', and he looked like he wanted to kill me but we both knew if he attacked me again I would have mopped the floor w/him so he left.
Do i give him a chance to collect himself and apologize or dump him for good? My inclination is to dump him for good--but maybe I humiliated him too much and pride wouldnt let him say "sorry." I realize now how fragile men's egos are!
anyway that's the latest.