Sounds spoiled and immature. Not sure there's much you can do, it's really your parents job to have a serious talk with her about her behaviour. A good start could be to talk to her about wether she has any passions, beside her boyfriend... Something she could possibly pursue. Make her excited about an idea like that and maybe she could get motivated to work towards it. She also doesn't sound very indepedent. I can see if your parents are the enabling types that they wouldn't want to kick her out but maybe that would be the best for her in the long run. If she never has to take any real responsibility she's never going to mature. It's possible then she'll just move in with her boyfriend but even living with a partner can be very hard and challenging when you have 0 experience of living without parents. I really do think a reality check is what she needs the most. Talk to your parents about not coddling her anymore, for her own best.
Spoilt and immature personalities suck, the reason for why I say this because spoilt and immature people just take people for granted and they want to keep on acting younger than they really are.
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Sounds spoiled and immature. Not sure there's much you can do, it's really your parents job to have a serious talk with her about her behaviour. A good start could be to talk to her about wether she has any passions, beside her boyfriend... Something she could possibly pursue. Make her excited about an idea like that and maybe she could get motivated to work towards it. She also doesn't sound very indepedent. I can see if your parents are the enabling types that they wouldn't want to kick her out but maybe that would be the best for her in the long run. If she never has to take any real responsibility she's never going to mature. It's possible then she'll just move in with her boyfriend but even living with a partner can be very hard and challenging when you have 0 experience of living without parents. I really do think a reality check is what she needs the most. Talk to your parents about not coddling her anymore, for her own best.
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Spoilt and immature personalities suck, the reason for why I say this because spoilt and immature people just take people for granted and they want to keep on acting younger than they really are.
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True but I think they can change, if someone already is kinda immature it's easy to turn out that irresponsible if they get spoiled a lot.