Unhealthy mindset brought on unwanted sexual desires

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ok its like this im a 25 year old male. ive had 3 good relationships with girls. unfortunately none lasted for different reasons. somewhere along the line i became very interested in cock. after my second relationship i got very depressed and sexually frustrated. so over time began to experiment because watching porn and masterbating just wasn't enough. i was watching porn and i seen this hot girl fucking her ass with a dildo. this is were it all started. it turned me on so much i thought id like to try it on myself. so a few days later i got a dildo and tryed it. to my surprise it felt amazing and i couldn't get enough of it. over time my thoughts on it slowly changed. it went from happy to have abit of fun with it in privacy to *id let a girl to do this to me* to *i wonder what a real cock is like*. i got with a girl after that for 6 months. now single again. got a new dildo a few weeks ago and am considering having gay sex.i developed these thoughts in a bad frame of mind so not sure what to do.any advice?

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  • wonderboy34
    13 years ago | pl

    I did it, enjoyed parts of it a lot, other I didn't. Men smell musty, couldn't deal with it. I was the bottom, as it sounds like you would be, and enjoyed the feeling at times, and there were powerful orgasms BUT I couldn't handle the guilt. I was involved with a wonderful woman that I married later. I told her after a drugged up escapade that went badly, it just wasn't worth it. I have no attraction to men, just the cock and how it would feel in me. Now I live/deal with the urges, and guilt. Plus, the fear of STDS is not worth it. Dildos settle my 'quiet' desires, so my advice is, don't try it!

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  • bazwell
    13 years ago | pl

    This is a perfect example of a situation in which a straight man after practicing and enjoying anal penetration is now confused and hesitant to proceed with his fantasies.

    You hear about people "turning gay" and the impulse is always to say a person is either born gay or bi-sexual and knows it immediately or later in life or born straight.

    What's so amazing about this is that over 50years ago, Kinsey (http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/research/ak-data.html) was suggesting that those strict categories may not effectively describe the immensely complex issue of sexuality. We are not born any one way and then confined to that one way for the rest of our lives. No! sexuality and sexual preference and interest, much like every other aspect of life, are likely to change multiple times during the course of a human being's life.

    You dear sir, have proven this quite simply and quite unintentionally it would seem. I recommend that whatever you do in the future, you ensure that the consequences that may follow are those you can live with and that the actions themselves are practiced responsibly and considerably.

    best of luck to you!

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