Uncomfortable cuz he is losing too much weight ?

My experience with this sublect I list he'll of a lot of weight when I was younger, this was due to my inherent Addiction to crack cocaine and methamphetamines. Drug screen him. If he refuses or is hurt by the notion, he is probably trying to save his ass or his relationship with you. that doesn't happen normally in a short amount of time even if one eats absolutely nothing for a week. Only tweak.

Be happy for him and then try losing some wieght if ya feel ya need to

If you feel uncomfortable being seen with him until you, yourself lose weight, then I suspect that you are overweight. Remember that MOST people in the industrialized world ARE overweight, so being "average" means being overweight.

Consider his weight loss as motivation to pursue yours. Go on a *low-carbohydrate* diet. This will be good for you.

I dont think you should lose weight, you should love yourself the way you are. my fiancee is like a model, and i'm like 10 pounds overweight, but i dont feel that way, i dont care what people think, and if he complains one day, so be it he's the loser! i'll just let him go if he cant accept me theway i am.

Well your priorities seem a little misplaced. If he is losing too much too rapidly that should be your concern, not how it makes you look or that you should be part of this unhealthy weight loss phenomenon too.

Be an anchor. Tell him you are happy with yourself the way you are. Tell him you are concerned about his weight loss. Tell him to go see his family doctor. Then tell him that whatever he decides, it is his problem not yours, and to leave you out of it.

It's pretty hard to say without knowing if or how fat you both are. You make no mention.

I think you are kind of insecure and should really stop feeling this way because if you really loved him you would be happy for him, especially if he is over weight. It shouldn't bother you that he is losing weight and not you in my opinion. Plus a lot of guys lose weight easier than women do.

If you think you need to lose weight than do it for yourself not because you are jealous of your boyfriend or care way too much of what others think of you.