Ugh i am not homophobic, but godamnit i'm pissed off

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Is it normal that as a straight woman I have been a very tolerate and gay friendly person all my life, but now in my middle age after allowing my partner's 18 year old lesbian niece to stay with us for less than a month I am wrestling with feelings of distaste and general annoyance with regard to homosexuals, lesbians in particular. In my youth the vast majority of my friends were homosexual, specifically gay men. I tend to honestly prefer the company of men in general, and especially gay men with regard to very close platonic friends. Unfortunately, it seems my partner's niece is a bit of a juvenile delinquent, and I honestly think the bad experience is affecting my feelings with regard to queer females. Although to be completely honest I've never had any especially close lesbian friends, like I said earlier I just seem to naturally get along better with gay men.

Regardless I just want to put the whole God damn fiasco behind me. If I eventually marry my partner the girl will legally be my niece as well. I have love for her, but right now I'm so angry and annoyed with all her stupid fucking antics! If I hear more bullshit about her saying she's an adult and can do whatever she wants with her life I will explode. We never asked to take her trifling little messed up ass on, she asked to come here, stay with us, mooch off of us, and waste our time, money, effort and emotions. If it's my house it's my rules.

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  • BlackCatsAreAwesome
    7 years ago

    I bet she has neon-coloured hair and wears those liberal "Lindy West" type glasses? Lots of piercings & tats too?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      :-/

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  • rep2
    7 years ago

    wait, are you saying you're annoyed by her taking advantage of your hospitality, or do you only consider it negatively because she is also a lesbian? What would her sexual orientation have anything to do with being an annoyance, especially if you are "not homophobic"?? Is she like, banging chicks right on the living room floor while you're trying to watch tv, or something?

    btw what're you going to study in college? Just curious.

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  • MR.mr
    7 years ago

    kick her out

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Thanks, she finally left last Thursday. Hurray!!!

      I'm super pissed off, because of the ordeal and my partner confessed that he wasted $400 on her pathetic ass. Yeah, it's his money, but if we're short, because he wasted money on helping the stupid brat then I will have to pick up the slack with my money and I'm on a fixed income and need my time and money to focus on going back to college. This is my first semester back in over twenty-something years. I told him I don't ever want to bring anyone in our home again to help them. I don't think it's worth the trouble and besides no good deed goes unpunished. I think I'd rather let someone freeze to death out on our door step then ever let anyone in our home again to "help" them.

      Thanks again for your prompt and spot on reply.

      :-)

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