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My girlfriends and I had a ladies night out last night. When we got back to one friend’s house, we all decided take a soak in their hot tub. We didn’t have swimsuits, so we just got naked. At one point, the conversation turned to grooming down there. Coincidentally, all six of us were shaved smooth. We wondered if that’s the norm now with ladies or guys. How do you groom down there?
Rose! Come on now, if someone wants to be part of the "in crowd" among those who run around naked then they GOTS to shave their junk!
I do not KNOW know of course because i am not a nudist. I live a transgender lifestyle so running around naked is, well, not a great idea for us trans bitches.
Well, it sounds kinda more exhibitionist than naturalist to me. To be honest nudist beaches, and resorts have never really appealed to me. Shaving, or trimming the pubes sounds too much like the people are trying to show off their private parts to strangers in my less than humble opinion. It's uncomfortable enough for me when I see someone shaved bare in a gym locker room. I would probably be comfortable at a topless beach, but I wouldn't want a bunch of people around me. That's just my preference.
I am also a card carrying AANR member, and I think you raise a good point. 30 years ago both men and women naturists were totally natural (untrimmed). The untrimmed look has been mostly abandoned in recent years. I think people trim because they are motivated by conformity. They want to blend in with the crowd, just like choosing conservative clothing styles to wear to work during the week.
Honestly, the faster you strip down, forget your clothes, forget your worries, feel comfortable in your skin, and head over to the volleyball games, the happier your day will be, and the freer your soul will feel, if you have a personality that is not overly rigid.
Honestly, I tend to agree with NikkiClaire on this. I just don't care to see a bunch of random naked strangers, and I certainly don't care for them to see me. I reserve my body for myself, and whomever I happen to be engaged in a healthy, monogamous, long-term, committed relationship with. I prefer to be much more discreet, and discriminating with regard to whom I expose my body. It's my body, and for me I prefer to exercise my freedom, my freedom of choice to not share myself with just anybody.
Well, hair grows there for a reason, so I don't think it's appropriate to remove that hair when people are going to be naked in front others. Body hair is natural. I think when people remove that hair it's kinda gross, like the people are trying to show off their private parts, and look like prepubescent children. It doesn't appeal to me. I think the current obsession that some people have about removing pubic hair is a result too many people watching too much pornography.
I just started trimming mine (not bald) about a year ago and i enjoy it for myself. I dont care what anyone else thinks, its my body. And to me either way is sexy. Do what you like, not what someone else likes, or what the societal norm is. Can you imagine if pubic hair makes a comback? All those people who get laser hair removal will never fit in again. Lol.