It is normal to fight. It is normal to feel resentment because he is gone all the time, and you are stuck at home or with the children, etc and so on. However, you really need to try to find a solution in your marriage, or you will end up pushing each other to the point of no return.
Try going on date nights. Maybe you need a little extra attention since you don't get much with him being gone all the time. Pamper him in return if he pampers you. Do little things for him that you know he enjoys. Perhaps this can set you both on the right track again. All of this said, I don't think it's normal that he holds onto his anger so tightly, even if you're still upset. It's natural to be upset after an argument. Try talking to him about it. If he gets even more angry, or you are holding onto your anger also, you have a serious issue that needs addressing, and you need marital counseling.
Again, I'd try little things to spice up your marriage like date nights, or just some alone time together. It sounds like you really need the attention. Best of luck. :)
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It is normal to fight. It is normal to feel resentment because he is gone all the time, and you are stuck at home or with the children, etc and so on. However, you really need to try to find a solution in your marriage, or you will end up pushing each other to the point of no return.
Try going on date nights. Maybe you need a little extra attention since you don't get much with him being gone all the time. Pamper him in return if he pampers you. Do little things for him that you know he enjoys. Perhaps this can set you both on the right track again. All of this said, I don't think it's normal that he holds onto his anger so tightly, even if you're still upset. It's natural to be upset after an argument. Try talking to him about it. If he gets even more angry, or you are holding onto your anger also, you have a serious issue that needs addressing, and you need marital counseling.
Again, I'd try little things to spice up your marriage like date nights, or just some alone time together. It sounds like you really need the attention. Best of luck. :)