It is a fact of MOST lives that we tend to 'fall in love' with our first. At least we think we are.
And it doesn't help that you actually waited until you probably WERE in love w/ him to sleep w/ him. Sounds like HE only waited until he was horny and you were the only one around...
That's why statistically, ppl that marry as virgins have a greater chance of staying married [longer than the rest of us, anyway].
STOP kicking yourself, write him off as an asshole, and stop punishing those men that might really be the good, kind, decent, stable guy you are looking for.
But, remember what Oprah always says, "LISTEN TO THAT LITTLE VOICE INSIDE!!!" So, follow your gut instinct, blow off the users and losers.
Traumatized and unable to move on...
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It is a fact of MOST lives that we tend to 'fall in love' with our first. At least we think we are.
And it doesn't help that you actually waited until you probably WERE in love w/ him to sleep w/ him. Sounds like HE only waited until he was horny and you were the only one around...
That's why statistically, ppl that marry as virgins have a greater chance of staying married [longer than the rest of us, anyway].
STOP kicking yourself, write him off as an asshole, and stop punishing those men that might really be the good, kind, decent, stable guy you are looking for.
But, remember what Oprah always says, "LISTEN TO THAT LITTLE VOICE INSIDE!!!" So, follow your gut instinct, blow off the users and losers.