Very nicely put, Jim_Pfoss. Girl you gotta just take a step back and figure out what's really important to you. Is sex really all that important to you right now? Don't feel obligated to it. It sounds like you're a normal person who gets a lot more out of the companionship that the physical side, just like most everyone else, men included.
Dont get discouraged, there's decent guys out there. Your friend there was wrong and mislead you, but you didn't lay your card down for him when you should have. People should know how you feel about them if you're going to have sex with them. I'm not saying it's your fault but just try and learn from this. Sorry to hear it worked out so crappy though...
Traumatized and unable to move on...
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Very nicely put, Jim_Pfoss. Girl you gotta just take a step back and figure out what's really important to you. Is sex really all that important to you right now? Don't feel obligated to it. It sounds like you're a normal person who gets a lot more out of the companionship that the physical side, just like most everyone else, men included.
Dont get discouraged, there's decent guys out there. Your friend there was wrong and mislead you, but you didn't lay your card down for him when you should have. People should know how you feel about them if you're going to have sex with them. I'm not saying it's your fault but just try and learn from this. Sorry to hear it worked out so crappy though...