Touching himself

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OK. I'm 30. My father is 67. Latley I've moved back with my parents, on a temp basis. My father has never abused me, but for as long as I can remember he talks about sexually explicit things in front of me (and other family members). And even when I was younger, if sex scences came on tv, he would never change the channel. It's like he's openly a pervert. The worst thing is that he always touches himself through his jeans while sitting on the sofa. He constantly brushes his hands along his penis, through his jeans. His hands are always resting on his inner thigh beside his crotch. Iv given him dirty looks so he knows I dont like it, but he continues. It's embarassing as I am shy to have friends over. Surely this cant be normal?

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  • tomcat1974
    13 years ago | pl

    when u r going to have company over to avoid being embarrased by him turn it around on him. introduce him as your father the invalid that has mental problems and not to pay any attention to him. say this in front of him to your friends so that he can hear u. tell them that he doesnt know what he is doing 90 percent of the time. hopefully this will embarass him. at least try it. thats what i would do.

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  • Crazy4All
    13 years ago | pl

    Whether he had touched you or not, it's called Sexual Indecency. If he has been doing it since you were a child, he needs reporting. And why did your mother not protect you from this? If he REALLY has done this you would not "feel awkward" to have friends over. You would resent your father and have serious issuses with your own sexuality.

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    • Nampohoon
      13 years ago | pl

      Thanks for the reply. how can I not feel awkward to have friends over, when he will do this petting thing in front of them and act sleazy. I moved out when i was 17 and this is pretty much my first time living under the same roof since. I'm here due to circumstances beyond my control, not by choice. I dont feel close to my family and I have tried to bring it up with my mother and she just wont hear it. She is the kind of woman who doesnt want to lose her man and her security, so she wont talk about it, plus he controls her with his moods, he's like a spoiled child. If I try to talk to my father about it, he will make my life hell. He is a manipulator. I feel isolated and I dont feel like I can talk to people about this, it's embarassing, hence the post on here. And yes I do resent him, it kills me.

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  • girrrl
    13 years ago | pl

    Maybe you should talk to him about how awkward it is for him to do that unfront of others.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago | pl

    That's awkward.

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